Humans need each other... being alone Sucks, I know... 71 and I'm going to die alone
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yes but if it doesn't progress anymore and years are wasted for nothing... that's a big disadvantage for me too... that means I have less years to bear children, to form a family
Just think about it... if I were get involved in two of those long-term relationship where we move in together and it gets too comfortable. Example: 6 years spent and it goes nowhere... you break-up Then 4 more years in another relationship and it ends
That would be 10 years of my life wasted... that means the chances of forming a family deminishes
They have become a joke nowadays. It got to the point I feel they're not even real relationships anymore. What's the point of living together when you're gonna break up? lol
Ok so if I were to take the risk of 6 years, then get into another relationship... live with yet another guy for 4 years... only to be wasted Guess what? That's 10 years of my life wasted in total. By then, my chances of becoming a mother starts declining greatly.
Then I think that's the reason there needs to be a timeframe. After the 2nd year, I think people should know by then where they are, what they want and if it's going to sooner progress to forming a family. 4-6 years (unless they just got out of HS) I think it's too long to be stuck on the same position, whether in a relationship, job, or elsewhere.
Perhaps. I've also seen too many people wasting years of their lives, only for it to be over... not progressing further. That means years wasted someone can't never get back.
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Humans need each other... being alone Sucks, I know... 71 and I'm going to die alone
yes but if it doesn't progress anymore and years are wasted for nothing... that's a big disadvantage for me too... that means I have less years to bear children, to form a family
Just think about it... if I were get involved in two of those long-term relationship where we move in together and it gets too comfortable.
Example: 6 years spent and it goes nowhere... you break-up
Then 4 more years in another relationship and it ends
That would be 10 years of my life wasted... that means the chances of forming a family deminishes
If positive/happy moments and periods of your life are pointless, then sure. To me they are not.
Almost maybe, you’re probably better off dating your cat.
Yeah, thanks to women, doing friends with benefits, ONS, and sugar daddies
In I'd say most cases now yeah
I know how you feel, it seems that way.
Yeah seems like it, relationships are hard
They have become a joke nowadays. It got to the point I feel they're not even real relationships anymore. What's the point of living together when you're gonna break up? lol
That’s definitely a good test to find out if it will last
So if you live together with someone for lets say 6 years, only for it to end... that's 6 years of your life you've wasted you'll never get back.
Seems like the great option nowadays is just to be single and enjoying your life, not worrying about whether your relationship will last or not.
I suppose but everyone has to take that risk if they want a companion and even a family
Ok so if I were to take the risk of 6 years, then get into another relationship... live with yet another guy for 4 years... only to be wasted
Guess what? That's 10 years of my life wasted in total. By then, my chances of becoming a mother starts declining greatly.
There’s no way of knowing that ahead of time unfortunately, it’s all gained life experience
Then I think that's the reason there needs to be a timeframe. After the 2nd year, I think people should know by then where they are, what they want and if it's going to sooner progress to forming a family. 4-6 years (unless they just got out of HS) I think it's too long to be stuck on the same position, whether in a relationship, job, or elsewhere.
time is unforgiving afterall
They are non-beneficial for most men
Totally.
You hurt?
Perhaps. I've also seen too many people wasting years of their lives, only for it to be over... not progressing further. That means years wasted someone can't never get back.
Girl I feel you really get hurt in relationship.
I meant to click yes