Are guys afraid of rejecting a girl, so they stick around without making any commitment? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

They dont want to disappoint their mother
Somehow, they see girls abstractly as feminine, and femininity was defined by their mother for them.
So rejecting a woman in any kind of way is rejecting feminity, rejecting their mother.
Which means they need to become independent of their parents and move on from the control of their mother.

[Tiptoetamm]

I would rather the guy be straight with me and let me know he's not into me so I can find someone who is

[watrewks]

Yeah it happens. I’ve done it because I feel like she expects a commitment and I don’t want a huge blowout because the way things she imagined aren’t so.

[boggboss]

If I wonder if she has feelings but she never says anything I equally won't because its upto her to speak about how she feels not me lol

[jshm2]

You're confusing an introvert with a coward, kiddo.

[Kabluie]

I have done so before or ended up having sex with them as a friends with benefits and not pursue a committed relationship.

[Ninjazzed]

Not at all, a guy will definitely hurt your feelings if it benefits them.. they string you along in hopes of sex.

[Alyssa11]

Guys don’t reject girls ever because it’s free pussy. There you go.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry, but this is not true.

[Alyssa11]

Ooooh

[Anonymous]

That's almost never the case.
Guys who don't commit simply don't want to commit. They are perfectly happy to have no commitment. Fear of hurting her doesn't enter in to it.

[sensible27]

I think if you're sure you should confront them.. (maybe)

[sensible27]

What uf you're not sure yourself.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

What the fuck are you talking about? What kind of ass backwards female ‘logic’ is this? If he has the option to stick around he hasn’t been rejected. Are you retarded or something?

[redskies]

Yea I am I know it the best way but I just do shit that would make her break up with me ( nothing like cheating or hitting/useing her but like not texted back until hours or days later)

[SupremeWarlord]

I did that once when I was 14. I pretended to not notice the girl's feelings because I did not feel the same way, but we liked hanging out together.

[Anonymous]

Okey as long as she directly asks I don't explicitly say I don't like you or anything. If she asks, I would say what I feel. I am not afraid but I find unnecessary to reject someone when she didn't ask anything

[Jamie05rhs]

I've had instances before where I specifically said "I just want to be friends" and she flipped out on me.

[RingOfFire]

I don't think that's the usual reason why guys don't jettison girls. Usually its because they still want sex but don't want a relationship.

[SenseiSeptred]

No, but people have grown on me like a fungus in the past that got me to like then. So anything is possible.

[MannMitAntworten]

I’m not. If I am not interested, I have zero problem telling them.

[kitkills]

I don't like rejecting people, so yeah I'd just let them hang around and just be friends.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

No. It's just the same reason why women stick around without making any commitment