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What is the reason you don't want to be in relationship right now? (Page 2)
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(18-24) 
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Not wanting to deal with the headache of getting cheated on again. Hard to find anyone who is truly loyal. I am also a victim of Domestic Violence and have PTSD. Very hard for me to trust men in general because of it. I’m working on self, in fb therapy, and just want to focus on being a mother to my daughter.
Dv therapy*
After the marriage I endured , never again. Also , I am a single FT working dad , I cannot compete in the very male heavy , sausage fest " dating market " , even if I chose to. I am the type that is happy in , and prefers my own company. Relationships are stressful and nothing but dealing with conflict & constant complaining & similar BS , a big no from me !!
I do want one but all that stuff you mentioned isn’t gonna just go away when you’re in a relationship. Those issues stay with you the rest of your life. If that’s the only reason you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone, then you should take a chance with that person and be in a relationship with them anyways. If they really do care about you, then they’ll be okay with your flaws, support you and help you overcome all that stress when you’re with them.
Because of the lack of my trust to anyone due to some of my bad experiences in the past with my ex girlfriends so I have decided that I need to take a rest for sometime to recover up my energy to start new relationship with the correct person. It seems a bit tough but worth it to wait for.
It is very rare for me to find people with whom it is possible to have communication. It is even more difficult to find people willing to have a relationship that is not superficial and authentic. Most of the women I dealt with were people who saw the relationship as a trading relationship, as if feelings and actions were a type of business.
It is better to fuck women than to be in a relationship because relationships end up costing a lot of money especially if you end up in family court and that is more likely than not. Women should be fucked for about the length of a fishing season and then dumped because that is when they start making demands.
I live in South Asia. The girls here lots of them are hot as hell.
But they’re extremely lazy. They’ve got zero drive ambitions they have no abilities to cook or any skills they just go outside eat rest lack of social aspects in their lives don’t really talk etc...
Fkin dead on the inside just good for couple pokes that’s it
Yes, it's mainly I haven't met a man worthy of my time. But also im single because I have my son to think about as a priority. Also most guys that I've come accross are not suitable model for him. So I choose to stay single
I'm in a sticky spot with strained family relations and an uncertain but stable for now future intentions. Hoping for the best. Planning for the worst (its fine i merely move out, seek a hostel or charity support for a while, and get back on my feet renting a studio apartment. And i'll be happier for it 😊
I'm sorry to hear about your depression and anxiety. I hope you get well soon. :)
I don't want to be in a relationship right now because I don't want to date guys from the country where I live. They're racist, violent and xenophobic.
Relationships aren't worth the financial and legal risks. Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces and get custody and alimony in 90% of cases. F#ck the future.
True.
As if women aren't cashing in left and right on relationships. Foh
I do actually.. But at my age even women younger than me most likely expect me to be further than I am right now.. Especially since I'm close to the settling down age.. I just need to get off of my feet really..
Hey we all get through life at our own pace, don't let it get you down. It's hard not to worry about expectations or to compare yourself to others, but try to remember you are unique and your life is unique. What matters most is being true to and loving yourself. Best wishes my friend.
@JustinTimberlegs Yeah man.. That's very true.. Thank you.. I wish I could like this comment.. 😌
No problem :) hang in there!
I'm in a tiny house, now, not like the big one I used to have. Where would I put her? Sure, she can have the spare bedroom or even share my bed, if she likes but, I don't even have room here for all of MY stuff!! where would she put hers?
I want to get in my feet first. I’m pretty stressed right now and a pretty private person in general. I don’t have the energy to put into a relationship like that.
omg me
to be honest I've always found the dating/talking phase to be more interesting/entertaining than being in an actual relationship. The relationships just left me disappointed and my expectations were never met.
Because for a man, relationships are far too much work, risk, pain. Modern women are just too problematic.
Don't want to get hurt again,
Don't have the same feeling to love someone again,
Don't want to give the same efforts ,
Happy to be single now
Because I am apparently super weird and defective, or at least that’s what I’ve been told and people don’t want that. They become immediately bothered by me unfortunately.
Honestly, I feel all of that and it's made for a lack in my confidence and that's a huge turn off to most women. Also modern dating feels so comodified I really would rather not participate.
agree with you.
because it's hard work emotionally, sometimes and gets exhausting, confounding