Why do I get so much mocking over a semi "catfight" in Starbucks*? sexism?

[MiaHolton9919]

As I have mentioned on here before, hell it was why I joined! Wish I was trolling. So I was in starbucks a couple of months ago, when a girl iknow came in , long story short we had been arguing through different people over her ex who I had been seeing at that time but have since parted ways.
Anyway she was being petty asking to "borrow a chair" I made a comment about her mask, and stood up she questioned my "respect" so I mentioned her love life history, she mocked my tan so I grabbed her hair pulled it to the side for like 2 seconds she then stands on my barefeet and pushes a ull cream cake/pie in my face, a couple of my friends were there and its since been a daily ridicule, they found it "hilarious".

[SupremeWarlord]

I think you shouldn't have provoked her.

Either way, I think there's a degree of sexism in this, usually when women get into a fight people start laughing, as if it were children fighting, and with men the atmosphere is more of a testosterone competition of who's more tough.

But this depends on your environment, in some contexts any fight is seen as silly.

[MiaHolton9919]

What contxt am I tho I hae seen men have proper "silly fight" they dont get the daily jokes and mocking I get, u get what I mean? I didn't provoke her, she provoked me!

[SupremeWarlord]

I don't have any concrete examples to give you, but it's not always a gender thing, fighting is seen as an immature thing in the modern world.

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[Anonymous]

She asked for a chair and you made fun of her mask? She questioned the respect you clearly lack and you went after her love life? She finally stooped down to your level and made fun of your tan so you started assaulting her?

You sound dumb cause its seems like you started both the verbal and physical altercation

And if you're going to start a catfight over absolutely nothing you can at least finish it up properly and rip the other girl's top off

[Becca2001]

This kinda sounds like completely your fault lol. Like just why?

[MiaHolton9919]

How exactly? She started it by being a stuck up bitch, I gave her hair a little pull.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Why do you participate in trivial matters like that?

[MiaHolton9919]

Because I was super pissed off, mocking my tan. It was a little argument for me, she deserved her pull.

[splashmustache]

I think your tan is as beautiful as your eyes ⚘😊

[BabyGirlRobin]

I understand that you were upset, but it's best not to waste time on people like that. Just laugh at them and be happy, it's the best revenge to any haters.

[supercutebutt]

There is nothing funny about this. You need more loyal friends. 😔

G@g readers, food is for eating, it's not for shaming. If you think it's funny to embarrass someone by making them messy with a dessert, you will be blocked. Full stop.

[Anonymous]

Sounds to me like you're not mature enough to to understand that you need to keep your hands to your self.. Accept the consequences of your actions.. Hell if I were there I'd vave recorded it and put it on YouTube.

[MiaHolton9919]

Well it was and ended up on social media. Well becuse she was chatting shit, so I checked her and gave her a little pull.

[Opinion Owner]

You justify violence by her words if you don't see how stupid that is, there is no hope for you.

[MiaHolton9919]

She was more violent than me? Nah im saying where im from if you chat shit you get a slap or a pull.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly.. Violent behavior shows your lack of maturity.. You deserve the consequences of your actions.

[MiaHolton9919]

So does she! Wha t consquences? im fine

[Browneye57]

You're both immature fucktards. GTFO.
If you came here for this bullshit then you can just turn around and leave. Seriously. Serious bullshit.

[Yourfriend2021]

It sucks but you can't start anything physical. Just try to start throwing pies in their faces to make you feel better.

[MiaHolton9919]

You can if their chatting shit, nah that ain't fighting throwing pies is it, not where im from.

[jspl90]

maybe dont act like a bitch amd you won't get mocked?

[loveslongnails]

Why are you still posting about it? Really bugs you, huh? LOL

[supercutebutt]

Wouldn't a pie to your grill bother you? It would bother me.

[loveslongnails]

@supercutebutt That's not really what's bugging her, if you were following her posts. It's mostly how the "altercation" is being categorized and how she's being portrayed in it, by her friends. LOL

[chriscdi]

Well cause it's funny when it's someone else, so obviously it's funny, just not for you

[groupsexlove]

Hey If you think he's good, why don't you put him to bed?

[Anonymous]

The question is why were you barefoot in a Starbucks?

[Wise4myage]

I think I would have found that funny too, lol.

[Anonymous]

Why do you post so many lies?