I (M29) have been talking to a girl (F27) for almost 2 month. Our conversations were always full of enthusiasm, we ended up meeting twice once for Coffee and the second time was at her house helping her move stuff around because living arrangements where changing. I ended up meeting her whole Family (Mom, Dad, Sister, Sisters boyfriend, and Her child) Yes she is a single mother. and since then we've done multiple video chats and she would call me randomly just to chat.
In the past two weeks our conversations came a near screeching to a halt and replies are scarce. Her child just started school and she started her next college semester, along with some other family stuff that definitely adds to the busy workload. needless to say I started feeling anxious because of the change of communication, but also recognize that she Is indeed very busy with her personal life and my currently be overwhelmed.
I asked her if she would like to go kayaking with me this Saturday, which she did respond she would check if her mom could watch her child. I called her yesterday and she answered. per our conversation our plan might change depending on her moms health (breathing machine post Pneumonia) but it seems like we are still set to do something together on Saturday her daughter included. I also asked if I had done or said anything that might of put her off (not exact words but the gist) she insisted I didn't so I will not press that conversation again as not to push my current insecurity.
However she still doesn't respond to messages, but the fact that she still still answers phone and plans to see me leads me to believe I am in my own head and she is genuinely busy and acclimating to her current schedule and situation. I mean if she really didn't want to see or talk to me she wouldn't go through the effort (my reasoning at least)
Should I be worried or just go with the flow? any advice on how to proceed or insight would be helpful.
Thank you in advance.
In the past two weeks our conversations came a near screeching to a halt and replies are scarce. Her child just started school and she started her next college semester, along with some other family stuff that definitely adds to the busy workload. needless to say I started feeling anxious because of the change of communication, but also recognize that she Is indeed very busy with her personal life and my currently be overwhelmed.
I asked her if she would like to go kayaking with me this Saturday, which she did respond she would check if her mom could watch her child. I called her yesterday and she answered. per our conversation our plan might change depending on her moms health (breathing machine post Pneumonia) but it seems like we are still set to do something together on Saturday her daughter included. I also asked if I had done or said anything that might of put her off (not exact words but the gist) she insisted I didn't so I will not press that conversation again as not to push my current insecurity.
However she still doesn't respond to messages, but the fact that she still still answers phone and plans to see me leads me to believe I am in my own head and she is genuinely busy and acclimating to her current schedule and situation. I mean if she really didn't want to see or talk to me she wouldn't go through the effort (my reasoning at least)
Should I be worried or just go with the flow? any advice on how to proceed or insight would be helpful.
Thank you in advance.
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