I’m in love with a girl who has a boyfriend, what can I do to forget her?

[Rob596]

I’ve been talking to other girls, but my mind isn’t on them. All I think about is her. And when I do, I just get so sad to the point where I choke up. Kind of like someone close to me had died….

[btbc92]

All the more reason why you don't fall in love and just because you feel like you're falling that doesn't mean it's for you to jump into. Love requires for you to do what is right. What is morally correct. You know that she has a boyfriend but in your heart you don't want to accept that fact. At the same time if you get involved with her it's not going to be the way you think it's going to be. Because in those kind of situations is often influenced demonically. Because of the person who have morals would not want to try to pursue it or even attempt at it. And so while I am not accusing you of trying when you know it's wrong. I understand that you are struggling and what I am sensing and seeing is that you feel very drawn to her as if you have to be involved with her. And I would highly suggest you do not. You got to ask God to help you find the strength to move on so you won't get yourself hurt like that. Because this has nothing to do with you not being her friend or anything but that this person may not be good for you. Now it is possible that she may be involved with the wrong kind of guy who knows. But at the end of the day it is her personal choice and as long as she is happy in that relationship you can't interfere with that. Speaking to other girls won't solve that problem. You with knowledge and that you were just as deserving of a wonderful relationship should help you understand who should be involved with and not be involved with. And you got to realize and understand why you fall in love the way you do. Because if you don't understand yourself the last thing you want is to put yourself in another position like this again. That's what I had to realize with people. I realize when I started people-pleasing the way I did, I was thinking that kind of attention I did not receive from my parents. And affected how I view others and how I expected others to treat me. So you going to have to dig deep and really find out what's happening because you shouldn't have that much of a problem to move on like that.

[xf25x]

Find someone new, and realize that if she were willing to cheat on him with you she would be just as willing to cheat on you with someone else down the road

[ZackBan]

You do what every other guy in your shoes does (if they can). Become a shameless fuckboy who's bed is never empty and is a host to all kinds of shampoos and hair colors.

Yeah it sounds like a bad way to go but it will enable you to put some bodies between you and her and who knows, maybe you meet someone worth dating along the way.

[TommyMountainFigure]

1st step is to learn to appreciate your own company again, otherwise it isn't fair to other girls. Besides if you DO meet the person you could end up spending your life with in this state? you'll blow any chance of it.

[Anonymous]

Realize that she's got a boyfriend and if she's flirting with you she isn't all that great.

[Iron_Man]

Get a serious hobby stay busy date other women

[In_Trance]

You're not in love; you don't even know her

[humanearth]

Find another girl