Why am I ice cold?

[Bradfsfd]

So after my ex, cheated on me. I have turned ice cold. Everywhere I look, I see attention whores, the gym, girls, (and guys) dressing down just to show off, Instagram, full of attention whores..

I don't want a girl that is showing of, not fucking worth my time anymore. I rather just hook up once in a while when I feel like it and move on.
I would rather die alone than be with someone that is obsessed with their "social presence". honestly
Am i wrong?

[SueShe]

Oh, you are definitely not wrong with your ideas.

It is a fact that nowadays, social media do promote pornography and prostitution among other negative trends. The fault is obviously the lack of rules against the propagation of such lewd content. The porn industry makes a very fine job at brainwashing youth and adults alike.

Social media should all have a body overseeing the content and censoring the questionable content since obviously it motivates people to behave the way they do and to seek attention at all cost.

Unfortunately, we live in a totally screwed up time where the cult of the personality predominates society.

[Anonymous]

When you except why you are feeling and thinking these things you’ll start to heal and feel better again. You are raw. Your words are hostile. It’s just because you’re hurt. It doesn’t hurt to talk to someone professional about it. It can’t feel good living that way.

[noohair]

I consider "social media" to be abnormal and fake. It promoted binary thinking. Yes/No, Like/Hate.
Humans are not binary creatures in the way a brain thinks. We are losing are capacity for intellectual thought. You has seen this and you are correct. Technology is a tool not a substitute for human interaction. You are miles ahead of your peers.

[Avicenna]

You haven't recovered from the cheating, which is understandable, but get off of social media for awhile.

[cloudspy]

How old are the people you are dating? Like you say, just do the hook up thing then. You sound bitter and you're not going to attract what you want with that mindset.

[Bradfsfd]

Why does that matter? I'm not looking to date anyone

[cloudspy]

I thought maybe you have been dating much younger than you are, you say you are 40. Instagram 'whores' are usually quite young compared to you, no? I was gonna say try date older and don't hook up via Instagram.

[fonduegirl]

Um, first of all, that's not ice cold. That's burning hot spirited rage against the opposite sex. Coldness is when you're indifferent and distant. Know your words before you ask questions.

[fonduegirl]

If you don't like social media, take down your accounts. Simple as that. No need to promote bitterness, is there?

[Robert_]

I think that you are looking in the wrong places...

[Sketti2021]

Cause you are hurting

[Bradfsfd]

Nope

[SnakeBoop]

okay.