Do men prefer submissive women to marry? (Page 2)
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It only works if that’s how she is naturally.
If you have to convince her, then it will create something toxic.
So, short answer is yes. If that’s the type of woman she is.
By that same token, as a man you better do your part.
Willing to be submissive in bed but I wouldn’t want to rely on my husband 24/7 because something could happen and we’d be fucked. Both of us should have our own job, separate bank accounts, maybe one joint account so we can plan stuff together and take turns with chores. No relationship will ever be 50/50 like some people think.
You really can’t generalize. Some do. Others don’t.
What do you think of ones who do prefer?
@WinterWind that’s fine. Some girls want a dominant guy. They’ll both be happy 😊.
I am not talking about being dominant. I am referring to a guy who likes to be sole provider and likes a feminine innocent woman
@WinterWind that’s totally fine if she wants that too.
And by any means he doesn't like her to feel inferior to him too.
@WinterWind that sounds really cool actually
@WinterWind i am childlike and feminine and need a sole provider so i can be STAHM and wife.
I think its the best situations, but society has hardwired a lot of the millennials and gen z to think they wouldn't be happy with that.
Look.. I'm a control freak. Just what it is.
If she's not the submissive with me, we're not even making it past the dating phase.
Good 😂👏🏻👍🏻
Oh don't get me wrong, I still expect her to not be an entitled cunt and to be able to take care of herself.
Just because I'm the dominant one doesn't mean she's getting any of my fucking money.
It depends on the man. But the men who women consider high value men (i. e., confident, competent, successful men) almost always prefer submissive women. There is no room in a monogamous relationship for two dominant personalities. That has always been true and always will be, despite how hard some women try to change the facts of human nature.
But those submissive women get cheated on because her husband finds dominating women attractive. But I prefer a submissive man to balance my energy. I'll provide and he can take care of home.
It's my personal observation and experience.
A married man legit told me he unwillingly married a submissive woman because he only needed 'someone to take care of his family but he was attracted to dominant women.'
Uhh thats not typical. Just because one man did that doesn't mean that's how it works. in my opinion dominant woman are disgusting and if i was going to cheat it would certainly be with a submissive woman... although im not a cheater.
@bamesjond0069 yeah dominant women are disgusting because they refuse to be your slaves and can fend for themselves.
Yeah exactly. Id feel gay to acknowledge that aspect at all.
Why is a traditional housewife "submissive"? You can uphold tradition without being submissive. I married an Arab girl who sees me as the main provider/breadwinner but she isn't a submissive housewife. She speaks her mind, tells me when she doesn't want to do something, and has a life. Yet at the same time, she cooks, cleans, surprises me when I come home, et cetera.
Yep, I meant like the what you wrote at the end of your text, who said submissive women can’t speak their mind etc.. as I mentioned I meant being a housewife.
Being submissive doesn't mean she doesn't have an opinion or speak her mind - that would be a SLAVE. Being submissive means that she lets her husband make the final decision, usually AFTER giving him her thoughts, and trusting her man to have taken her thoughts into consideration.
It's essentially a chain of command. Think of a captain of an infantry unit - he's going to make the final decisions, but if he's a decent captain of any kind, he's going to be taking input from his sergeants constantly, and he's going to listen carefully to what they say, and quite often he's going to take their advice. But when he overrules them, those sergeants will trust his leadership and adopt his orders as if they were his own idea. The captain makes the decisions, and the captain also bears the responsibility for the mission and for the safety of his men.
People lose their minds and think this is some BDSM entry level BS. It just means she’s on the same program as you and in your lane. We know half y’all’s minds are in the BDSM gutter anyways. Get over it already.
If it is her own choice to be a housewife then I think I will be fine Miss, but the decision should be hers.
But, if you ask about preference I would love a girl to whom I can reach home to after long day at work.
Not too submissive, I like a woman who challenges me at times while always maintaining respect as I will towards her. One thing I will say is that it seems to come off negative, especially in this day and age. I believe kids should spend more time with momma for the first few years. Theyre just great nurturers that a man could not equal. But just as she submits to me I should submit to her as well. I believe a lot of us need a second opinion.
I really think it depends on the guy. A lot of guys I’ve dated/talked to told me they liked me because of my attitude lol. So I’m not sure here.
A lot of career woman can be more outspoken within the workplace but would prefer not to have to do that within a relationship …
I have a career and I have to be outspoken and speak up within my field unless I want to lose my licensure. I enjoy my career and any man telling me to forget what I worked hard for wouldn’t be the one for me. To each it’s own….
What do u do. I think careers add attraction
yea a housewife sounds very nice. i mean if she got bored id be fine with her getting a job if the kids were old enough or it was part time but in general yea i think its true
I didn't.
A man wants a partner and submissive women may make things easier because there is less arguing about what to do, but I want a partner to get through the challenges in life.
So you’re saying a sub woman cannot help her partner to get through the challenges and problems?
Of course, she can... By relieving her man's stress with a good BJ, HJ, or lay.
Seriously, yes, but that's when there are well-defined roles like in "traditional relationships" in which the woman was supposed to be submissive to the husband no matter what her personality.
But, in the real modern world, a man needs a lot more than a "yes woman". He needs someone who can take initiative or lead when necessary and earn money like him - a situation in which her power is just as good as his. Besides, men are very attracted to confidence in women. Submissive women are often less confident for one reason because she's afraid of upsetting her man.
Right, I feel like I prefer the old-fashioned, traditional relationships than how it is now, but yea after all everyone’s preferences different.
I prefer a woman that is true to herself and lives her life the way she sees fit.
So you’d prefer an independent woman rather than one being dependent on you?
Not necessarily, but it that is what she wants for herself I would totally support her choice. If she preferred to be a housewife that would also work for me.
No, I want an equal partner.
💯. 👍
No I would prefer she has her own thoughts and opinions and career. We can both take turns cooking. or cook together. As it's both our home we should have equal responsibility for cleaning. I don't want kids so thats not a concern. I hate the backwards stereotype. If a woman chooses or a man chooses to be a househusband/wife then fair enough. I just hate the expectations and crap like that.
Uhm u suppose to be submissive towards a man it mandatory
You’re right 👍🏻👏🏻
I guess you a short woman right?
I prefer the housewife; however, if she has a better job, I wouldn't mind being a househusband.
I hope you’re joking for the last part lol 😂
Why would I joke about that if she makes more money than me then why would I have her quit her job to raise the kids? I should quit my job to raise the kids since she would be making more money.
He's not. Many of us aren't. Work is an enormous pain in the ass. If you think it's wonderful, you do it. But, of course, you don't want to do it... because it's shitty and you'd prefer the man to do the dirty work and take care of you giving you an easy life.
Well, we'd like an easy life too for the same reasons you and everyone else does.
Yea but it's been always like that, since everything started it was men choosing to work and passed the responsibility to women to take care of the home, and raising children etc, which is honestly not as easy as you might think, however women are more fragile, delicate and more emotional to problems that you have to handle outside the house, why would women do the same things men do and end up being so damn depressed to start doing drugs, when can be a good mom at home and take care of everything there.
I always thought what was good for the goose was good for the gander.
This:
"men choosing to work and passed the responsibility to women to take care of the home"
is false.
You are too young for me to explain the proper scientific reasons why things are the way they are, but I will simply say that they are the way they are because of evolution combined with the forces of nature that created us to be what we are.