Is it wrong for me to go to a hotel after a fight with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

We live together and after a fight I just need my space. I don’t want to make things worse by leaving to calm down, but I also can’t process with him right up under me.

I have also reached my breaking point with this relationship and just need to figure out if I want to continue.

[Anonymous]

That’s completely fine, sometimes you just need that alone time and space to really collect your thoughts. I don’t think you should stay away for too long tho, you do need to resolve whatever issue you had with him asap (and decide if you still want to keep going or not). Hope it all works out for you!

[PrettyPriya]

Absolutely zero problem with this. Sometimes that extra space and quiet is what is needed to come to a resolution.

He should respect your decision to do so and take some time to think and reflect.

[PrettyPriya]

@asker

Thank you kindly for MHG 😊

[Red_Arrow]

Sounds like your relationship is very hurtful and has gotten bad enough that you need your space. Surprised that you lasted this long with him.

[Wise4myage]

I think its fine, just don't mention it to him, because he might think you went and hooked up with some other guy.

[Asker]

So I should just leave without saying anything? He’s home with me now in his office

[Wise4myage]

Sure, just say your going out to cool off.

[boggboss]

Truly depends on you then I guess for me I would think its a bad look for the relationship but if that's what u need to cool off go for it

[wankiam]

its the right thing to do as far as i can see... you both need time to think

[blended_ninja]

As long as you're not cheating, it shouldn't be a problem.