Is it a big deal or am I overthinking it?

[Anonymous]

This is my first relationship and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months so i am getting a relationship anxiety every now and then when something happens which I give too much meaning. So I called my boyfriend this morning, and left him a text that I am going for a run if he wanted to join me. He called an hour later but I didn't pick up cause I was running. I called right after and the line was busy. So I thought maybe its because he tried to call me again. I left there but after 2 hours I tried calling again and this time it didn't ring busy directly but after a few rings so I thought he hit the busy button or refused my call. I understand he might be busy so I'll wait for him to call me back. I just felt unease cause I don't like double calling and don't want to smother him certainly. What should I do now to relax my brain?

[SnakeBoop]

People miss each other on the phone all the time. Just chill. Its almost a massive red flag you feel the need to re-ring and shit like you can't live without him.

[Asker]

I usually don't re ring unless its emergency. I missed the call few seconds and called right after so it got busy notification. After doing my stuff i thought i can call again just in case he was trying to reach me. But i don't want to re-ring that's why im asking.

[kyleelyn199723]

Maybe you two should organize times on when to call each other so this doesn’t happen. It’s great that both of you are keeping a busy life outside of each other

[Asker]

Yeah he called me again and he wasn't feeling good today so needed to clear his head. I told him next time to text me he needs some alone time so I don't call or disturb but he told me not to worry about it and that I'm a wonderful girlfriend.

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice

[Lola154]

write everything that annoyed you on paper, everything that stressed you then burn it later... after that you can communicate with him the problem calmly, that what a doctor advised me as I was stressing too much

[mansplainer69]

Don't worry I seriously doubt he'd refuse a call if he wasn't busy.

[mansplainer69]

Also guys like privacy so of he ever doesn't contact you fo a while it doesn't mean he's not thinking about you, he's probably playing a game