My partner lost all her hair during chemotherapy for breast cancer. I'm the one she asked to bring over my clippers and cut off her hair so it wouldn't coat her sheets and pillow overnight. She still has that hank of hair, tied in a pink ribbon. Did it change how I felt about her? Yes, it did. It made me more caring, more protective. She wore a wig for a while, and a few times we both chased after it when the high winds blew it off her head. She also lost eyelashes, eyebrows, and other patches common to the feminine form. It all grew back, except for the arm pit hair, which her nurses and doctors' office assistants responded to with, "Awww!". Yah-sure they were mourning her 'loss'. Didn't have to shave the pits anymore, so she's happy. Did her hair re-growing change how I felt about her? Yes. When that happened, I didn't have to chase her wig anymore, didn't have to wait while she penciled in eyebrows, didn't have to be quite as protective. The real bottom line, as I experienced it, is that hair presence or absence has very little to do with who the person is and what the person's value is. Yes, there are some shifts and some adapting that is done. That shifting and adapting is normal in all things in the evolution of a relationship, not only hair.
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thats really sweet.. thanks for explaining, it was precious 🤍
There's nothing wrong with your question dear. I tried to help him but he wouldn't listen, instead he chose to make personal attacks on me and my profession so I blocked him. I can't reply to his comment cuz I blocked him. Anyways, to answer your question: yes, I would still love the person even if they went bald for any reason. My mom lost her hair when she had chemotherapy and I was there to assure her that I'll help her get her hair back after she beats cancer. She passed away less than a year ago. I know for a fact that she's in a better place now. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft, p
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yes, let him say whatever he wants 🙂
i'm sry to hear about your mom, may she rest in peace 😇, and thank you for the answer.
I totally would! If he/she had a bald head, I'd want to know what illness of course, but I would never leave them because an illness caused them to lose their hair, I'd like them just the same! Looks are not as important as people say, it's the person and their personality that counts. Sure, looks and body are another thing to be attracted to but don't just be with someone because they have a full head of hair, and uh.. Abs or something. If the person I was with was truly someone I was attracted to personality-wise, I wouldn't leave them.
My husband went bald in his early 20's and just started shaving it all.. And yes, still loved him... It's just hair people and can always get a wig or toupee...
Honestly, having seen images of my crush with extremely short cropped hair (not bald but not far from it), I can pretty accurately say she's hot af even bald. So, yes. In fact actually, 3 of my favourite pornstars are bald, whatever that adds to this.
When I am in love with somebody I am committed and when I'm committed there's nothing in this world is going to stop me from loving that person because together I will make sure that we get through this moment in time just a moment in time that's it another moment will come after that moment
Bald or anything important, as a loyal person ill stay but not by pity. But because i'll care, i'll be worried, i will just try to do everything so she happy. Thats what a real woman deserve 🥳
well, nice question, but I have to say after i went bald the number of women who hit on me declined some, in fact it went from hitting on me to being anxious I would hit on them. I don't love this feeling
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it's ok, i would feel the same. and that's what reality is 🙂 if you have time, pls look at those who gave an opinion on my question, there are very few who responded than people living on earth, and those who gave this response are arguably rare. i don't know if any of them are hypocrites, but i still don't want to think bad further instead i appreciate of their existence like you do. so thank you for being honest. wish you have a good day😊
What if it wasn't due to an illness and they just lost their hair, does that nake a difference? The reason i ask is because your question stipulates illness, as if that would be the only reason for baldness to stay with them.
For any reason really. If you partner only loves you for your hair and their partnership is conditional upon your hair, might as well get rid of them now. That's pretty shallow.
Women they have estrogen if they go bald is entirely their fault and because of that for diet or chemicals they use it’s not like men.
When men go bald is because they overproduce testosterones or because of other complication. So the only way to stop it is for them to turn into a girl.
Short answer if your girl goes bald I will not date her or I will leave her.
What are you do give them Rogaine or Propecia? Which slows down the DHT and screws up their testosterone and basically numbs the dicks and turns them into a girl? Which completely destroys their sex hormones? Is that what you do?
Well these are all myths. I know people on the drug for 25 years and they haven't had a single side effect.
If you know it's mechanism of action you'd understand why these side effects you hear about are bogus.
You'd understand that the people who have had sexual issues or were prone to them prior to taking the drug are the ones who blame the drug.
Anyway you seem to think to know more than actual professionals or people who have been on the drug for many years so I'll let you lose your hair and regret your blissful ignorance later.
by the way there are many other techniques that can stop genetic hair loss and I never prescribed Rogaine because it's a really bad drug that causes hair cells to become dependent on it and addicted to it.
Finasteride does not decrease testosterone. It decreases DHT.
DHT is not responsible for virility after puberty, testosterone is.
The people who have had side effects with Finasteride are those who have physiological problems that caused increased testosterone conversion to estrogen. Under the right care you can stop that from happening even if you have underlying health issues like these people who blame Finasteride do.
Finasteride decreases DHT.
Testosterone either converts to DHT or estrogen or stays the same.
Since we are decreasing DHT production then testosterone will increase Slightly and so might some estrogen (if your body doesn't have the proper way to deal with it).
The vast majority of people have no issues.
Those who might have issues can start taking aromatase inhibitors. These prevent the conversion of testosterone to estrogen.
That’s why I hate modern medicine and doctors! You guys spent eight years in school I believe six years to become a doctors eight years to become a specialist another three years to become a surgeon. And I drink all the time all you learn is mostly complex medical term mumbo-jumbo. You’re not there to heal people. You’re there to mask the problem. Money is not in health money is in sickness.
And an average doctor six years of learning in medical school he or she learns about 30 minutes about nutrition the rest is all mumbo-jumbo complex language.
All of my friends took Propecia and Rogaine including me on the boxes says there might be a 2% chance of side effects of having problems in a penis area all my friends including me had the same problem so don’t give me that bullshit!
Dude you have no soul. And I suggest you shove your fucking bullshit up your ass!
Number one cause of death before heart disease are doctors!
sry to bother you both, let's take a deep breath shall we.. inhale, exhale.. take a drink, eat something, hear something, watch something, do something that relaxes you for a moment. if it doesn't help, i don't mind deleting this question soon if it makes any of you at peace. tbh, i wanted to ignore this, but still it worries me.
and thanks for giving an honest opinion from both of you🙂
That’s what all girls want! And maybe you can sucker some guy into your female annoying drama horse shit to give me p##sy. Which pu##sy doesn’t have any value anymore. Since getting laid has became easier.
Of course having an illness wouldn't be a reason to not love a person, I would suppory girl if she has an illness just like I would want her to support me if I had an illness.
Unquestionably, yes. It is far more likely her going bald would affect her emotionally greatly more than her going bald affecting me on some negative level.
I'm inexperienced, but I believe I will. Love is not about look but personality. If I loved her, then I would do my best to make her feel more comfortable. Such person really needs it.
Of course! I'd love him. I'd get to see the reflection of my lips when I kiss him on the head lol Honestly, I'll never stop loving him cos I'm sure he'd never leave me If I was the one with the illness
