Should I say / Do something about my friends relationship?

[Anonymous]

So there's a couple in my work, We are all friends but they have been in relationship for 3 years, They have been living together, Unknown if it's been for the full 3 years but at the same time are only teenagers (19)... The relationship seems to be very toxic.

They are constantly arguing with each other and last week both considered breaking up as it's that bad as the guy had left the girl in almost tears. She told me last week that he had grabbed her arm forcefully and it hurt her, Every day there is new drama with the guy starting an argument over the smallest things...

I don't want to be the person to break them up or say something that could make it potentially worse but I don't want to see either of them getting hurt physically or mentally...

[melmel123]

seems like there realtionship is toxic and cause there young also can be the case if he's grabbing her its only going to get worse i say try to talk to her and see if she feels safe I've been in a abusive realtionshiip it seems to me like its a start of one thats what happen me and my boyfriend would fight over stupid shit then it started to get worse i was in a abusive realtionship for 3 years once ur in its hard to get out dont get to into the drama but at a distance make sure she's safe

[kyleelyn199723]

Yes you should threaten to whoop this guys ass for laying his hands on a woman number one. Number two , you need to give them insight on how toxic their relationship is.

[jaybee281]

Don't fix it - neither of them will appreciate it and they'll make it look like you wanted them to breakup so you get together with her - While in reality all you care about is her well being while he's being a dickhead - The real question you should ask her is if she loves him - If she loves him - Definitely 100% stay out of it no matter how toxic he is..

[Anonymous]

I stay out of it. people go back and forth in relationships