What makes you fall in love with a guy? (Page 2)

[Jayleenxo]

His kindness

[Anonymous]

Chemistry.

[SushiFushi]

Vulnerability

[lucas262]

Baby I got it in spades but like any other man you'll never see it. Most women will have to pull and pry for a long time to get most men to open up.

[SushiFushi]

I saw it before and I liked it

[lucas262]

I'm curious what exactly you liked about it. Emotional closure? Someone letting you in? The sort of mystery of why someone is slightly fucked up?

[SushiFushi]

No babe I feel like I can protect them and help them when they open up. Like if my partner is having a bad day and he opens up and be vulnerable I feel so good to hold him in my arms and make him feel good. It’s probably the emotional closure like you said.

[lucas262]

Probably not many men have told you. But we feel nobody gives a fuck about us.

That shit is like crack when it's legit.

[SushiFushi]

Yea that’s right. They have told me. Most of girls have been around bad guys who would sleep with them and leave them.. that’s why they develop that defence wall and when they get approached by a potentially a good guy/husband material they don’t give two fucks about their feeling as a coping mechanism because they are worried all men are the same!

That shit is good hey

[lucas262]

I know men who think of women as something like points on a board.

It always felt like these guys can go out have sex and have dates and I couldn't even get a girl to grab coffee with me.

Yea those guys exist, lots of them,

But I also know plenty of good ones.

So how does a guy prove what he us, and move beyond a defense mechanism?

[SushiFushi]

Yea there are heaps of them out there.

Yea these guys have their way to attract women.. I don't know maybe work in self esteem and confidence these are the two sexy things..

Communication, openness and vulnerability referring to my first point 😊

[lucas262]

I think Vulnerability could also be translated to trust. As in telling about yourself is a trust move.

[SushiFushi]

Absolutely! That’s a key