Us guys are heartless creatures, until we felt loved.
For some, a great family and upbringing make them kind and understanding and forgiving.
For some, they know little another love and is usually more selfish than girls.
For some, they felt abandoned since young and grew up values all encounters with "what do I get from this?"
You'll have to know which part of the spectrum he's on.
If he's the type that knows love, perhaps by you asking forgiveness coupled with insistence on loving him, he may give you a chance.
For the rest, you probably should learn to let go. Otherwise you'll get a bad heart break that may last for decades.
Most importantly, learn a lesson from this: that guys are not like girls. We are a lot more pragmatic and self-centered. Forgive me to say this: we usually don't wear old shoes. (Sorry, it's a term my junior staffs use.)
Can you imagine what you could do to make him feel better about you abandoning him? What could you buy? What could you say? What could you give him?
If you can't think of anything, or you can't get that/those things, then I think you know your reality. Life hurts, and it looks like you have lost a friend. It's best to deal with it upfront and honestly.
You can try talking to him, but there's a very good chance that you'll just end up hurting yourself even more.
Next time a man tells you to choose him over your dignity, your heart, and your loyalty, then understand that he does not actually love you. If he did, he would never put you through that. It doesn't matter why he can't love you, but I hope you understand that he is giving you proof that he doesn't care about your soul, about who you are, about your well being.
Good luck. I hope life is merciful to you, and that you have truly learned a lesson.
s All you can really do is apologize and hope he is forgiving. Hopefully it is a lesson learned as well that dating someone who wants to control who you can talk to is a bad idea.
You screwed up, there's nothing u can do. what reasons did you give him to talk to you again?
0, just move on
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You don't. Let him find a better friend who doesn't drop him for no reason.
All you can do is message him, and ask for a second chance.
This is a prime example of why platonic friendships don’t work.
You don’t.
He was the guy you should have cared enough about to be with.
Hopefully he found someone who saw his value
You're selfish. First, you choose a boyfriend over your guy friend, then when your relationship fails, you want him back as a friend. BS.
Go apologize and ask him for another chance
Ask for forgiveness
Leave him
Apologize.
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