@Static_In_The_Attic Well. If someone has a partner who works as stripper, it was incredibly naive to believe their partner never gives private shows incl. lap dance and even much more. Because 'more' is the content stripper make real money.
Of course it is. Why is this even up for debate? If you do anything with sexual intent, it's cheating. If my man did this, the relationship would be over and my heart would be broken.
Do you say that cuz the dancer is technically a stranger? What if the girl is a friend of his and not at a strip club? Or the girl, who is his friend, is also stripper and gives him a lapdance at a strip club?
Haha! I didn't even think about what you are proposing!
I assumed that a stripper at a strip club would be a stranger, but even if he knew her, I would be okay with it. If it's just a dance, then I'm okay with it, as long as he doesn't secretly text her, or meet with her. The venue also makes it okay for me.
If I had a boyfriend, and a girl started workin it all over him, I wasn't there, and/or she didn't ask me first, then I would probably take that as a sign of disrespect. I would probably find out what she was trying to do, like is she actually into both of us, and that was her way of proposing something to us. I would also ask him if he wanted to make our relationship open, or ask him if he wanted to do something with her, and depending on how I felt about her, if he wanted to try something with both of us.
Why would either of us be in a strip club? I wouldn't say it's cheating but its a sign I picked the wrong partner.
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Did they fuck? No. It's not cheating.
I can stand it when stupid people label everything they don't like as "cheating" just because they lack the vocabulary to describe the actions of a partner.
Nope, it is Not... just guys doing what guys like to do... look at naked women, you will NEVER change that fact, but you might turn the guy into a Liar... and he will "claim" that he isn't interested and never does it...
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If at a bachelor party? No. That’s fun and innocent. Bonus. They come home wanting you.
@dustybiker @19magic @RedStiletto88 @Bekaaaaaaaahhhh Just once in a while, I guess, would be okay.
Depends who paid for it.
interesting... what if she gave it to him for free?
and he accepted? It's over.
bahahahahaha well there ya go
If a stripper at a strip club has a boyfriend or girlfriend
& she gives someone a lap dance is she cheating? NO or Yes?
@Static_In_The_Attic Well. If someone has a partner who works as stripper, it was incredibly naive to believe their partner never gives private shows incl. lap dance and even much more. Because 'more' is the content stripper make real money.
Of course it is. Why is this even up for debate? If you do anything with sexual intent, it's cheating. If my man did this, the relationship would be over and my heart would be broken.
Not cheating but the fact he did it would be a red flag to me
I would. Once you start questioning it, you know it’s cheating already in your head.
No I do not, but each relationship and their definition of cheating is different.
No. If you can't get an STI from it without wearing a condom, then I have no problem with it.
Do you say that cuz the dancer is technically a stranger? What if the girl is a friend of his and not at a strip club? Or the girl, who is his friend, is also stripper and gives him a lapdance at a strip club?
Haha! I didn't even think about what you are proposing!
I assumed that a stripper at a strip club would be a stranger, but even if he knew her, I would be okay with it. If it's just a dance, then I'm okay with it, as long as he doesn't secretly text her, or meet with her. The venue also makes it okay for me.
If I had a boyfriend, and a girl started workin it all over him, I wasn't there, and/or she didn't ask me first, then I would probably take that as a sign of disrespect. I would probably find out what she was trying to do, like is she actually into both of us, and that was her way of proposing something to us. I would also ask him if he wanted to make our relationship open, or ask him if he wanted to do something with her, and depending on how I felt about her, if he wanted to try something with both of us.
Why would either of us be in a strip club? I wouldn't say it's cheating but its a sign I picked the wrong partner.
Did they fuck? No. It's not cheating.
I can stand it when stupid people label everything they don't like as "cheating" just because they lack the vocabulary to describe the actions of a partner.
If it was a one off I wouldn't care if it was a monthly thing I've gotta ask why he would be doing it.
you tell me? would you like your wife/partner to do that on someone? and if the answer is no then wtaf are your relationships
It depends. If it’s like once and I’m there with him then no. If he is always going out then yes
No but it's so disrespectful that a break-up would be justified.
Nope, it is Not... just guys doing what guys like to do... look at naked women, you will NEVER change that fact, but you might turn the guy into a Liar... and he will "claim" that he isn't interested and never does it...
Kinda iffy but if it only happened once I probably wouldn’t flip out
I mostly consider it something I'm not going to talk about!
I think only one person has that call... the one who cares about his lap dance! LOL
Yes because it's a sexual action.
Even though sex didn't happen it's a enough to turn a guy on.
Not even a little, but I understand why some girls don't like
I don't, as there's no fluid exchange, no notion of a relationship. It's just entertainment.