I can't say something else, than i have been sort of there, what you are describing, so first when i started dating her, was everything okay, and why i fell for her, is personality, that is why i love her, so we started dating and so on, she was in thr beginning toxic with me, and flirting personality, and made me always think, that maybe i should dump her, because she was seeing her ex-boyfriends, and so on, she said they are just a friends, well okay let's leave it here, so after few months together, she felt secure with me, so she opend up how has been her childhood, how she was treated, and how was her ex-boyfriends, so he's she sometimes is difficult, but i don't give up, i see that i have changed her in past few months, as i am very calm person, yes we are two completely different persons, but maybe that is what bonds us together, there is saying "is she is simple, she won't be easy, if she is difficult then she is amazing" and now i can confirm this saying.
So yes every relationship is hard working, but some people are to suffer for, and we love each other, yes we have ups and downs, but we haven't broke up for these things, because we understand we are different people and we understand this, there are good days and bad days.
I just keep my head up, and help her as much i can to make her insecure feeling better, to trust me.
I think this is how most of us feel, barring the property bit. Being desired and having someone want you to themselves is hot. That someone misreading things and becoming paranoid is not.
So yes. I get it. But it is like the whole being forceful bit. It can be very attractive as long as it is actually wanted. And it can be rather illegal and horrible when it is not.
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