"I will not be your valentine"
Hearing firemen say they couldn't save my cousins because the flames were too high.
My boy best friend (lets call him Ryan) and me had a very complicated relationship, on and off dating for years, then we agreed we stayed friends, we didn't want to ruin anything! For years he begged me to get with him sleep with him etc, he knew my history with boys and it wasn't nice, he always promised me the world and that he would never treat me like the others did. He always said we were both in love and there's no point ignoring it... we were both in love but i was too afraid to lose what we had- a little while later i gave in and we confessed are feelings allll over again and we ended up sleeping together.
A week later i walked down to his house where his sister said "hey, this is (fake name) Katy, Ryan's Girlfriend"
My heart broke there and then, my own best friend / love had been lying to me for how long? He then said "it was a mistake and never should have happened" Yet he was the one over all those years begging me for the chance.
He apologized a month later and asked to be friends but i never fully forgave him and haven't spoken to him since.
Coward that I am, I couldn't bear the scream that came from my husband as the paramedics were attending him, so I stepped outside the house for a minute and came back in to one paramedic saying
"Your husband's heart stopped, they're doing what they can but it's not looking hopeful"(they called his death 5 min later)
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Wife had a bad car accident, 3 doctors told me she would not live. For 30 days i sat by hwr side. I prayed God wake her. She woke up to the hell of burns on 1/3 of one side, the flesh was burnt off her. She nashed her teeth. She got a shot of morphine she eaz good for 10 minutes then she had to wait 3 hours and 50 minutes. Then as soon as she woke up oi prayed God put her back into a coma. She got released aNd had to learn to walk again she took a dictionary and learned how to talk again. She broke the same bone in her necak as Super man who fell off a horse. She lived well till she passed of MS. I had 36 years with her.
u one morning my mother woke me up to give me the worst news ever about my best friend, I honestly don't remember what she even said, all I remember was her face in tears and sorrow and that she seemed to say something to me, but I just don't have any memory of what happened for two or three days later, I just went numb and shut down
"I just want to waste your time."
"Your cousin is so fucking beautiful."
"Only thing we have in common is just great sex."
"I do want more kids in future, but not with you tho... so please get birth control."
"You are too old for birthday gifts"
"I don't believe in valentines day"
"Get a job, the baby will go to day care"
"You deserve getting hit"
"You're just a girl that thinks I'm the one.
"My sister is an amazing mom, she knows how to take care of children soooo... you can't be with her"
Took her away from me...
Was getting ready for work and got a text from my mum asking if she could call me. She's done this before and I've panicked and it was just a normal conversation, didn't think much of it so I continued getting ready for work and was going to call her while walking to work. She ended up calling before I responded, I was putting my backpack on about to walk out and I answered.
She said "I'm sorry, I had to call you, I'm sorry I have to do this over the phone but Cameron committed suicide last night."
I fell to my knees, felt like I couldn't breathe. I said "you're kidding, you've got to be kidding" but why would anyone kid about that? Nobody would I just couldn't believe it. My heart hurt so so much it was the hardest, most painful thing I've ever ever heard.
One time my father came into the kitchen while I was cooking for him, my daughter and myself. I was taking care of him after my mother and brother had died. Anyway, he asked me who I was. I told him I was his son, Tom. He said no I wasn't, that he only had one son and he was dead. I was adopted and I don't think he ever accepted me as his son.
So far?
"I've met someone else, but I still love you as a friend." Which really means, all that sex that we haven't been having lately, I've been having with someone else behind your back. Oh, and that thing about being soulmates, well, yeah, I think you know what I mean.
I know that there are worse fates in life than that, but, so far, that one really hurt, given that I had moved a thousand miles on a false promise. Oh, well, more fool me. Won't happen again.
These are the most painful things I have heard:-
• You don't deserve to live.
• You look so ugly that devil will also never buy you if you will try to sell your soul.
• You belong to a millionaire family so you will never understand the pain of a common man. You will stay spoilt forever.
Painfully beautiful line (line from songs which touched me a lot)
• Cuz everybody see what they wanna see, it's easier to judge me than to believe
- You never know by Blackpink
• I draw the blinds,
They don't need to see me cry,
Cuz even if they understand,
They don't understand.
- On my way by Alan Walker
For now I can think of these many only.
Honestly i can not say for sure. Everyone has faced some type of challenge in life and been force to over come with some type of trauma. Back in the day people didn't make so much out of their issues and things... but in todays worked everyone is more than willing to share their problems... so you kind of get numb to it because its all you hear about from various media sources and people in general.
Its hard for me to really know if they want sympathy or if they except or are looking for me to feel about it. But I really have a hard time trying to gen up the compassion about it when I have faced so many challenges in my life and not put it on other people...
I guess its the ones that have been molested or stories of prolonged sexual abused that the hardest
The most painful thing I ever heard, as opposed to the most emotionally painful thing I ever experienced.
My wife and I hadn't been married long when she got pregnant. It seemed to be going well and, after three months, we finally told people. But when she went in for her next ultrasound, the nurse looked concerned and then said that the fetus had no heartbeat. I was crushed, but my wife was devastated. That was really sad.
Okay some of these are just painful to read and I'm just commenting to say I AM SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU.
definitely one of thease 2
finding out my dad passed away, when the doctor came in to tell us.
Or. Finding out my fiance was cheaing on me, She Left me for another guy,
i came home to a note, And ring on the table, and all her stuff gone.
That my father had been killed in a traffic accident. That was the end of what had been a pleasant childhood.
That my partner passed away from intentional overdose.
I spent two months in straight-up denial believing her family was lying to me, and I haven't really recovered since.
Mental health issues are a terrible thing.
It always bothers me when I hear/read a good question, that I don't have a good answer to.
I haven't ever heard anything that caused me anguish. Either a) that means I've never really felt strongly attached to the object that should cause pain, or b) I'm pathological.
The latter possibility is disturbing, but the former isn't that pleasant to me either.
A jet engine up pretty close. They’re really loud and it hurt to hear it. Although firing a gun without ear protection is right up there. In the painful things to hear department.
Of the stuff at home. Opening the drain valve off my compressor. When under pressure. Gets to be rather uncomfortable.
A friend of mines husband was killed in Afghanistan and both her sons committed suicide. One at 12 years old the other 19.
It was when my brother removed himself from this earth , and the reason for his doing so. The pain has never left my soul.
When I was 16 I told my mum about my rape that happened when I was 14, and she said “well maybe you deserved it, are you sure you didn’t just have sex with him and later regret it?” I locked myself in the bathroom and tried to kill myself later that night.
The most painful thing I've heard is "you're amazing and I wish you the best, I support you"
I hate self praise on another level, I'm certain at this point the stupid love convincing themselves they're amazing and don't give a second thought.
Overall, my existence would indeed have been the cause of the loss of numerous other lives.
The phone call telling me my best friend killed herself
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