"I will not be your valentine"
Hearing firemen say they couldn't save my cousins because the flames were too high.
omggg
@ninaneedshelp Right? Omg that is so awful.
So sorry for your loss, that must of been horrible
@Brainsbeforebeauty the whole experience, especially the struggling with survivors guilt messed me up for a long time. I'm doing a lot better now! Thank you
I saw your comment to. Terrible I'm sorry
Thanks, and I'm glad you're doing better♥️🙏
😁💙
Man. I am so very sorry for your loss I can't even begin to know how to recover from that ordeal. My deepest condolences.
@TommyMountainFigure Appreciate the kind words man! Thankfully I have a few great people in my life who were very understanding and helped me get through it
My boy best friend (lets call him Ryan) and me had a very complicated relationship, on and off dating for years, then we agreed we stayed friends, we didn't want to ruin anything! For years he begged me to get with him sleep with him etc, he knew my history with boys and it wasn't nice, he always promised me the world and that he would never treat me like the others did. He always said we were both in love and there's no point ignoring it... we were both in love but i was too afraid to lose what we had- a little while later i gave in and we confessed are feelings allll over again and we ended up sleeping together.
A week later i walked down to his house where his sister said "hey, this is (fake name) Katy, Ryan's Girlfriend"
My heart broke there and then, my own best friend / love had been lying to me for how long? He then said "it was a mistake and never should have happened" Yet he was the one over all those years begging me for the chance.
He apologized a month later and asked to be friends but i never fully forgave him and haven't spoken to him since.
Coward that I am, I couldn't bear the scream that came from my husband as the paramedics were attending him, so I stepped outside the house for a minute and came back in to one paramedic saying
"Your husband's heart stopped, they're doing what they can but it's not looking hopeful"(they called his death 5 min later)
OMG! That's probably the worst thing someone can experience in life. I can't even imagine. I'm so sorry.. 😞
Thank you
((Warm hugs))
@dustybiker ♥️🤗
@Brainsbeforebeauty been there with my mum, so I get you.
@dustybiker hugs 🤗🤗♥️
I just read this and want to offer my condolences too. There are things sometimes that chill you through to the core. This is one of those times. I don't have the words to express just how sorry I am. Deepest hugs from me too.
@Brainsbeforebeauty and @dustybiker hugs for you both
@TommyMountainFigure Thank you.
@Brainsbeforebeauty
((Group hug))
@dustybiker
@TommyMountainFigure
group hug 🤗🤗🤗
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Was getting ready for work and got a text from my mum asking if she could call me. She's done this before and I've panicked and it was just a normal conversation, didn't think much of it so I continued getting ready for work and was going to call her while walking to work. She ended up calling before I responded, I was putting my backpack on about to walk out and I answered.
She said "I'm sorry, I had to call you, I'm sorry I have to do this over the phone but Cameron committed suicide last night."
I fell to my knees, felt like I couldn't breathe. I said "you're kidding, you've got to be kidding" but why would anyone kid about that? Nobody would I just couldn't believe it. My heart hurt so so much it was the hardest, most painful thing I've ever ever heard.
@Razp_Sorbet Wow that has to be horrible to hear. Was this a family member or relative? Especially by suicide. It makes you wonder what was going on with the person.
@ArrowheadSW he was a good friend of mine. Our parents are friends we basically grew up together.
@Razp_Sorbet So sorry to hear this. When you hear of suicide, it makes us wonder what the person was going through, and if anything could have been done.
@ArrowheadSW yeah everyone wishes he would have said something. Nobody knew he was struggling.
Wife had a bad car accident, 3 doctors told me she would not live. For 30 days i sat by hwr side. I prayed God wake her. She woke up to the hell of burns on 1/3 of one side, the flesh was burnt off her. She nashed her teeth. She got a shot of morphine she eaz good for 10 minutes then she had to wait 3 hours and 50 minutes. Then as soon as she woke up oi prayed God put her back into a coma. She got released aNd had to learn to walk again she took a dictionary and learned how to talk again. She broke the same bone in her necak as Super man who fell off a horse. She lived well till she passed of MS. I had 36 years with her.
🙏♥️
m one morning my mother woke me up to give me the worst news ever about my best friend, I honestly don't remember what she even said, all I remember was her face in tears and sorrow and that she seemed to say something to me, but I just don't have any memory of what happened for two or three days later, I just went numb and shut down
Sorry for your loss🙏
@Brainsbeforebeauty I appreciate that, and best wishes for you as well
💛♥️🤗
@Brainsbeforebeauty and I mean it, as I read your comment and I can relate some to it, since my friend had to spend months in intensive and critical care, and as for much as I tried the impossible to be there every day, I just could not for reasons many
and I've dealt for years with feelings and words like guilt, and fear, coward... "not trying enough'" but no, it isn't about that, not as simple as that, life, love and and especially fate are just too complex and way beyond us... it has been a long time for me, so everyday I wish better for myself because I know that's what he would have wanted for me too and we're never really alone 💛
Thanks.. Words I need to hear💛🤗
"I just want to waste your time."
"Your cousin is so fucking beautiful."
"Only thing we have in common is just great sex."
"I do want more kids in future, but not with you tho... so please get birth control."
"You are too old for birthday gifts"
"I don't believe in valentines day"
"Get a job, the baby will go to day care"
"You deserve getting hit"
"You're just a girl that thinks I'm the one.
"My sister is an amazing mom, she knows how to take care of children soooo... you can't be with her"
Took her away from me...
One time my father came into the kitchen while I was cooking for him, my daughter and myself. I was taking care of him after my mother and brother had died. Anyway, he asked me who I was. I told him I was his son, Tom. He said no I wasn't, that he only had one son and he was dead. I was adopted and I don't think he ever accepted me as his son.
So far?
"I've met someone else, but I still love you as a friend." Which really means, all that sex that we haven't been having lately, I've been having with someone else behind your back. Oh, and that thing about being soulmates, well, yeah, I think you know what I mean.
I know that there are worse fates in life than that, but, so far, that one really hurt, given that I had moved a thousand miles on a false promise. Oh, well, more fool me. Won't happen again.
These are the most painful things I have heard:-
• You don't deserve to live.
• You look so ugly that devil will also never buy you if you will try to sell your soul.
• You belong to a millionaire family so you will never understand the pain of a common man. You will stay spoilt forever.
Painfully beautiful line (line from songs which touched me a lot)
• Cuz everybody see what they wanna see, it's easier to judge me than to believe
- You never know by Blackpink
• I draw the blinds,
They don't need to see me cry,
Cuz even if they understand,
They don't understand.
- On my way by Alan Walker
For now I can think of these many only.
Honestly i can not say for sure. Everyone has faced some type of challenge in life and been force to over come with some type of trauma. Back in the day people didn't make so much out of their issues and things... but in todays worked everyone is more than willing to share their problems... so you kind of get numb to it because its all you hear about from various media sources and people in general.
Its hard for me to really know if they want sympathy or if they except or are looking for me to feel about it. But I really have a hard time trying to gen up the compassion about it when I have faced so many challenges in my life and not put it on other people...
I guess its the ones that have been molested or stories of prolonged sexual abused that the hardest
The most painful thing I ever heard, as opposed to the most emotionally painful thing I ever experienced.
My wife and I hadn't been married long when she got pregnant. It seemed to be going well and, after three months, we finally told people. But when she went in for her next ultrasound, the nurse looked concerned and then said that the fetus had no heartbeat. I was crushed, but my wife was devastated. That was really sad.
Okay some of these are just painful to read and I'm just commenting to say I AM SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU.
definitely one of thease 2
finding out my dad passed away, when the doctor came in to tell us.
Or. Finding out my fiance was cheaing on me, She Left me for another guy,
i came home to a note, And ring on the table, and all her stuff gone.
That my father had been killed in a traffic accident. That was the end of what had been a pleasant childhood.
That my partner passed away from intentional overdose.
I spent two months in straight-up denial believing her family was lying to me, and I haven't really recovered since.
Mental health issues are a terrible thing.
Sorry for your loss🙏
Sorry for your loss as well, it's hard.
Yes it is.. Death is part of life, don't make it any easier for the living left behind
It always bothers me when I hear/read a good question, that I don't have a good answer to.
I haven't ever heard anything that caused me anguish. Either a) that means I've never really felt strongly attached to the object that should cause pain, or b) I'm pathological.
The latter possibility is disturbing, but the former isn't that pleasant to me either.
A jet engine up pretty close. They’re really loud and it hurt to hear it. Although firing a gun without ear protection is right up there. In the painful things to hear department.
Of the stuff at home. Opening the drain valve off my compressor. When under pressure. Gets to be rather uncomfortable.
A friend of mines husband was killed in Afghanistan and both her sons committed suicide. One at 12 years old the other 19.
Rough man
It was when my brother removed himself from this earth , and the reason for his doing so. The pain has never left my soul.
When I was 16 I told my mum about my rape that happened when I was 14, and she said “well maybe you deserved it, are you sure you didn’t just have sex with him and later regret it?” I locked myself in the bathroom and tried to kill myself later that night.
Your mother sounds like an extremely miserable and disturbed person. What she said is all on her and has nothing to do with you. Some people are so horribly self-obsessed that they are incapable of proper emotional relationships and she sounds like a classic case of that.
I hope that you've been able to find some counseling or therapy to process what happened to you. If not, do make the effort--it really helps. Eventual group therapy can also be a great support. Just don't think that you have to deal with it alone. I wish you the best of everything.
The phone call telling me my best friend killed herself
The most painful thing I've heard is "you're amazing and I wish you the best, I support you"
I hate self praise on another level, I'm certain at this point the stupid love convincing themselves they're amazing and don't give a second thought.
Overall, my existence would indeed have been the cause of the loss of numerous other lives.
My brother running out of the house yelling at me to go get the neighbor because my mom was dying
It was an SMS, actually: "I don't love you and we can't date anymore".
The confirmation from the cops that my best friend blew his own head off.
I've heard so much of this. Maybe the veteran I cared for who shot into a car speeding toward a checkpoint and killed an entire family including 3 small children, and only discovered that after he was done shooting. They were late for the funeral of their 4th child who had been accidentally killed by US troops.
My ex said some very cutting, hurtful things. The worst being what he said to me after inviting me to stay at his place and I’d been there a few days: “the moment you walked through the door I wanted you to leave. I couldn’t stand to be around you”
When I was playing football and my calf muscle snapped.
Great question. There are some things that will never belong to GaG though.
All of these stories are so heartbreaking and I feel for every one of you. 😢💙
One friend of mine was in relationship with one beautiful and sexy girl, he buy her costly gifts but when he asked that girl to have sex, she always pretend that she is not BC protected, in this way she avoid sex, once he told her that you are just bluffing, she quit and never met him. So his all money which he spent on the girl, was wasted
Did she leave because she realized that your friend expected the nasty?
She probably thought he wanted a relationship and left once she realized he didn’t. Having s*x with someone else that doesn’t also want it is NOT his right, or anyone’s. It doesn’t matter how much money he spent on her, though I’m sorry that he is not happy with the spent money.
Ever heard?
Finding out my ex of 9 years found and is having a relationship with someone on one tinder 2 months after we broke up. Wish I could move that fast, must be nice.
That a good friend of mine, who was like a father to me, died.. and then a few hours later found out another good friend died..
The exactly same thing just happened to me. 😔
@Agape93 how are you dealing with the pain? Sometimes I feel I'm still in denial...
@Ratpack60 thank you. Very true what you said..
I said to my ex that I wanted to have his baby and hold his hand. He said that he would kill it if that happened. I didn't say anything. Then I found out he was cheating on me with someone else and he knocked her up and he wants to raise her kids.
Well if that was his attitude you are better off without him.
He said he would kill your kid but now has his own. Those kids need to be watched out for.
This morning I had to calm an employee of mine down. Her husband died in the shower. Come to find out he had Covid. They had no idea. I am helping her plan things and get her company resources, till family can assist
“my feelings for you have changed” this happened one week after me and my ex met each other’s parents and I was madly in love with him. it felt like a punch in the stomach.
"I'm sorry but you're never going to be a girl's first choice. You'll be the one they're looking to marry when they're done having fun with other 'first choices'"
Wow. Who, on this big watery rock we call Earth, would ever and I mean EVER say that to another human being? What the heck? That’s just mean, I’m sorry
A dog that had been run over and was howling in pain and dragging around it's rear end. The howling gradually subsided until it died.
being called a Liar... when I was 8, my father thought it was funny... I cried, I was not lying
My wife of 10 years telling me she had a 6 month affair with her best friends brother.
Extremely loud annoying sound that made me cringe and cover my ears, not sure what it was but it was horrible and deafening.
that i was used by someone i thought was my friend.
When my daughter told me that she didn't want to live with me anymore at 15... Teenage girls love to torture there fathers for some reason. It was a hard time and we came to a understanding. It hurt deeper than anything her mom ever did.
i heard this in my head
https://www.youtube.com/embed/sHbvLOtwaOs
My ex told me that it's good were breaking up because our kids only want him and that they really dont love me. They just say they do to make me happy.
Then girlfriend saying:
"Yes, I fucked him"
*insert details here*
A guy fell into a fire pit in his backyard. Alcohol might have been involved.
"she didn't make it."
I don't remember anything in particular. Perhaps my social circle isn't that horrible.
I thought I knew pain until I read these comments. But for me it was if you understand the rules you won't get hurt, I like having fun but if it gets serious we'll talk.
“I do hope things workout with where I am but if they don’t I wouldn’t dare pass you up”
When my son said he was goin to train hard to become a super hero, that way he he can bring his "good grandma" back from heaven...
If you show any emotion at all you should be executed you faggot - My dad to me when I was 6.
Reading this, I rather thought about descriptions of physical injury. 🤷♂️
"She's had zero brain activity for 45 minutes."
The wings were for a limited time only at Taco Bell
“I don’t love you anymore”
I have many mosts.
All those Superstar TV shows.
That my brother had committed suicide.
When my ex miscarried.
"I've been cheating on you"
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