Will you break up with a girl who gets verbally abusive and throw tantrums during her period?

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My girlfriend becomes a monster during PMS. Gets into stupid arguments, curses throws bad tantrums. Even though sh's not like that normally. But I can't take it anymore. She's my first girlfriend and I really tried much. Cooked, did other housework but she still says bad things about me. Even though she apologizes much afterward but bad words still stay with you, as perhaps those are her true feelings deep down.

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Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

Now that I am older most women I had run into have either had menopause, or have started it, which can be a real treat as well.
However, I would run into that, everyone is different, I told them that while I did not know what it is like to go through that, is was not an excuse to treat me like crap.
Imagine if men did the same thing to them for 1 week once a month.
This was before we lived together, I told them that I would see you in a week, as I had a place to go.
Just because it is your issue, don't take it out on me.
I'm sure to most women this will sound really crass, but I did nothing what so ever to deserve to be treated like that.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Honestly anyone man or women that catches mood like this and treat people like this for any reason are some what emotionally unstable or selfish. I would never be with a person like that nor except any excuse for being treat like that. It just not okay.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I mean hormones make you do crazy things but she doesn’t get a pass to treat you like shit just bc she’s PMSing… have you talked to her about it? Some girls just aren’t aware of how bad they get when they’re hormonal and they should still be held accountable for their tantrums. Maybe try giving her space and just leave her alone the next time she acts up (make sure to tell her that you’re giving her space to avoid conflict)

lrina · Accepted Answer

just because she's on her period doesn't mean it's ok for her to do this.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not if she apologizes after her tantrums , A girl’s period fucks up her hormones and makes her become a shark , Just remember it’s shark week and to distant yourself from her as much as possible and don’t let her verbal attacks bother you to much, it’s just her hormones raging , Now if she is physically hurting you the. Do not tolerate that shit that’s a whole different issue if that is occurring but verbal just let it go in one ear out the other especially if she is coming to you apologizing after her attack , yes it sucks but just think if us guys had periods we would probably be acting the same way and breaking shit lol Throw her ass some chocolate and keep your distance from her as much as you can lol

Raphaëlle · Answer

Just because you're feeling bad, it's not an excuse to treat someone else bad. Maybe she could be in contact with a doctor if something is affecting her hormones?

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Any woman who thinks she gets a pass because of a biological aspect of womanhood that happens on a regular basis is out of her mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Voted no before i read what you wrote, but it's more like a maybe.
Have you tried talking with her about this when she is not on her period? Based on her answer you could decide what to do.
If you really feel like you can't take this anymore, then you should break up with her.

jahaims · Answer

I wouldn't be with someone who is immature. Moody is one thing but verbal abuse and temper tantrums are from being immature not hormones.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If it occurs once, it may be PMS: if twice or more, it may be toxicity. Quite obviously there's an issue she needs to handle. I'm a bit sensitive for this kind of stuff and would likely walk away from her the first time it reared its head within her.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I'd put up with it for awhile but if she's throwing things and just treats me like crap. I'm out of there

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

Women typically have the emotional intelligence of a pre-teen when there hormones are out of control... which happens often.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I get her the right types of vitamins to help her calm down

Anonymous · Answer

Get rid of her dude. Stop with the loyalty shit. she's probably on tinder cheating on you anyways.

PrettyPriya · Answer

Yikes. So is she on birth control currently?

DCooper · Answer

Bye Felicia !

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes that toxic

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