My son's mother lived around women who knew how to beat the system. 3-4 children. Each with a different man. Child supportvis 1/4 income multiplied by the number of children is a tax free income, huge tax refund, free Medicare, food stamps, rent =1/4 income, free utilities. Although I was never married to her.
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you don't know how alimony works or why it exists. When you're a perverted 45 yr old who only wants an 18 yr old for a housewife, she is missing out on the most crucial developmental parts of her life for her education and career. In simpler words, you have TAKEN AWAY her opportunity to get an education or develop a career. Now she's 18-25, staying home with 3 kids wasting away her youth on caring for YOUR children.
Now you want to divorce her. SHE HAS NO MEANS TO SURVIVE ON HER OWN. She has nothing. She doesn't have an education, doesn't have the skills to obtain a decent job. And its because you have taken away her chance at these things. Now you are owing her for all her years lost. This is what alimony is meant for.
Alimony doesn’t exist in my country and I don’t understand why it exists in other countries, so can’t say.
An unfortunate situation, if there ever was one; and part of my worst nightmare. My heart goes out to any man who finds himself in it. Good thing for me, though, I've never dated; life is already difficult enough for everybody and I wouldn't like to have to add something like this to my list of worries.
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This by far the biggest reason I'm single. When you hear the horror stories of men. And then the women, 1. Don't even try to deny it but, 2. Actually feel justified in the way they've destroyed guys' lives.
It's really hard to trust any women today seeing what they're capable of.Leech and a parasite.
Disgusting example of a human beingIf she never worked she must have been either a housewife or a leech. If she was a home maker she deserves alimony. If she was a leech you deserve a kick in the butt for enabling her. Even so she can get alimony, whether deserved or not, by law.
i would blame myself for my stupid decision to get married
The question pretty much describes every female on the planet
I wouldn't marry someone who never worked.
Of course that’s upsetting
I'm not an idiot to be in that situation.
Not gonna happen.
I do not listen to the government
so I would never pay child support or alimony
they are basically asking for a death sentence
I have no issues ending their worthless livesYou should have got the prenup.
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