Why doesn't he trust me? How should I oppose to his behavior? Did I made mistake slapping him?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating this guy for almost a year, Initially things were alright now things are taking ugly turns since I have another friend who proposed me, I refused him saying I am already dating someone. I conveyed all this to my boyfriend he told me I should block him, I was like when my friend is not harming me or forcing me why should I block him?

The guy friend agreed to me about moving on, and just on a casual note once asked me out for a lunch, I agreed and didn't tell my boyfriend because I didn't wanted any fights with him, I was aware what's the limit I have with my friend, so I just went for an hour.

Few days back my boyfriend checked on my whatsApp, he was literally reading all of my chat with him, he got to know that I went out with him, I clearified him everything that see only this this happened, it's was a casual meetup.

He was literally dragging the same topic for days, I felt like is he doubting on my character or what? When I clearly said him that nothing is there with that guy, I got too frustrated once that he is constantly judging me, I slapped him, and he slapped me back!

I am too much guilty about slapping him, but how should I deal with him doubting me when I did nothing wrong?

[HollyK21]

For one: you’re boyfriend is right and you should end that friendship. I would understand your feelings if your friend was completely harmless, but if by saying “he proposed me” means he asked you out, then that means he has feelings for you and that is when you cut ties. Imagine if the role was switched and your boyfriend had a girl friend that he texted all the time, he knew she liked him, and he literally argued to keep her around. How would you feel? Probably very upset and rightfully so. As for slapping him, that is 100% completely wrong. For no reason other than self defense should you ever put your hit another person. You need to get a handle on your emotions and do better as a girlfriend.

[HollyK21]

*put your hands on

[spartan55]

Uh, you did do something wrong. You went and saw some other dude behind his back. Are you kidding me?

[Asker]

I really didn't saw any guy! I just went to accompany one of my friend, to be honest, he is from a different nation and he doesn't knew regional language and he wanted to try out our cuisine. Was that wrong?

[spartan55]

If it wasn't wrong then why did you go behind your boyfriend's back?

[Asker]

Because I knew he will unnecessary argue even though it's gonna be just a friendly meet. I just didn't want to bring up conflicts.

[spartan55]

It's still dishonest. Would you be okay with him doing the same to you?

[Asker]

I will not mind if his intentions are really pure! I am too honest to even give him my phone to him, and even after knowing that he is reading his chats, I never deleted it. He infact on the other hand keeps the passport and never made me check on his phone. I know from within that I am 100% honest towards him! My intentions are clear.

[spartan55]

Riight, he is smart not to trust you.

[Heartache0405]

Equal rights equal rights he shoulda slapped you back 😂

[Heartache0405]

Fights*