Boyfriend is causing me anxiety when pooping and caused stomach issues? How can I get him to distracting or rushing me?

[idgaf12345]

We have one bathroom. In the morning till 1pm he probably uses the bathroom 4-5 times. He at least poops 2-3 times in the morning which makes the toilet unavailable for me from 9:30am to 11pm. We both work from home and I usually have meetings from 11-1pm. So at 1pm I would finally get to both go number 1 and 2. Around 1:05pm, he knocks on the bathroom door saying he needs to use the bathroom again and that he is waiting. He also uses the bathroom to masterbate when I need to really go since I had been holding all morning. That’s also why he knocks on the door to tell me he’s waiting.

Over a long period of time, it had caused me bladder infection from holding pee. The worst is developing anxiety over this not having my time and privacy to “poop”. Also, having anxiety while pooping of him rushing me out. It had caused constipation which was worst, or diarrhea. My doctor had told me I have an extremely nervous stomach causing me the all my stomach issue.

Other reason why I know it’s my boyfriend causing me this is because when he’s not home…I get to poop in full peace and my stomach is normal. Sometimes, I would not be able to release myself in peace, and that I would go again at night when he’s not home.

I think this whole thing also disrupt my pooping cycle. I had talk to him before and expressing in huge concern of my health. He stopped interrupting me for around a month and my stomach was great. Now, he’s back to interrupting me while pooping and hoarding the bathroom all morning

[007kingifrit]

ok what is going on here. a healthy person doesn't go to the bathroom that many times in the morning. he needs to see a doctor.

you also need to stand up to him and tell him to shut the fuck up and don't knock when you're in there. tell him he should wait quietly and not tell you he is waiting, it doesn't matter

[NotTacocaT6969]

Tell him to go shit in the woods if he’s going to behave like a caveman.


Tell him to jerk off in his bed like a normal human and not in the bathroom like a freak.


Also, it’s not normal for a human to poop that many times within 24 hours. If he’s pooping that often just in the morning, he needs a doctor or to stop constantly eating 24/7.

[DarkWinterNights]

I’ve never understood jerking off in the bathroom. It’s uncomfortable and not very sanitary.

[lrina]

so i can't tell if it's a troll or not, but if we were to suppose that you're not a troll, i think it may be better for you to get a new boyfriend who actually cares about you.

[abc3643]

Does your boyfriend have Celiac Disease or Irritable Bowel Syndrome?
If he's in the bathroom that much, this could be why.
(Perhaps he should stay away from food products with gluten.)

If he has such an illness, then you may wish to consider getting a new boyfriend.

[Xhuy_006]

First off, he should see a doctor. No way a human should be pooping that much. Now that he ALSO rather put his nut over his girl's needs is ridiculous. But that's y'all's relationship i can't say... Definitely see a doctor tho. That ain't normal to be pooping that much. Worrisome. Much worrisome. Such no bueno.

[Anonymous]

ok what is going on here. a healthy person doesn't go to the bathroom that many times in the morning. he needs to see a doctor.


you also need to stand up to him and tell him to shut the f*** up and don't knock when you're in there. tell him he should wait quietly and not tell you he is waiting, it doesn't matter. It's unhealthy to hold in your pee and poop. The longer you keep doing this. Over time you will do damage to your body. You really need a place with a 2 bathroom or get rid of him.

[DermalPunch]

Mornings are rough, eh.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Do the same shit to him, when he is in the bathroom just rush him, tell him you gotta go, if he complains you tell him not to do it to you then

[Guardian45]

Get another bathroom or boyfriend. The second might be easier!

[GMANN56]

Tell him to leave you the fuck alone when you are in the bathroom.

[Anonymous]

so go shit your ass out and if he's still using the bathroom then take a shit on him take a big long fat dump on him

[Opinion Owner]

or go take a shit in his mouth. take a big long dump in his mouth and make sure he chews it and swallows it then wipes your ass clean with his tongue sticking his tongue up your rectum to wipe your feces clean with his tongue

[slatyb]

Are you sure that's what he's doing?

[UniquelyBasic]

Tell him to let you shit in peace

[Iron_Man]

Talk to the guy have a serious conversation

[idgaf12345]

It’s a huge problem actually. He used to ask me to have sex when I need to go. Since I had been refusing, he uses the bathroom to masterbate and not let me poop.

I know it might sound funny but it’s really annoying. Also because my stomach is full, I would have an appetite to eat lunch. I also have to work as well. It’s really annoying.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe you aren’t compatible with him

[JuanVeIasco]

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