In the case of my wife, she's a book editor and publisher by trade so she's constantly reading new books and manuscripts. That generates a whole lot of fresh conversation material every day.
We also like to spend lots of time together with our mutual friends. They tend to become a source of fresh conversation material for us with all the things we do together with them.
Finally, we overlap a lot in terms of interests so we tend to talk about a wide range of topics. We've been together for over 14 years but there's always something new to talk about.
I envy your happy life, take myself, I am engaged in the import and export of medical equipment trade, my life is actually very boring
I have not tried to go out with a boyfriend for many years, I am afraid of it, but more worried about the lack of conversation between the two people and become cold
I'm a software engineer so my work generates very little interesting to talk about unless someone is actually interested in subjects like algorithms and data structures (in which case I might still not be interested in my spare time)! :-D
I always think if there ever reaches a point where conversations become repetitive, we can always do something new together and generate new material.
Maintaining heat and passion is a bit trickier so many years into marriage, but I find it helps when we do things like have home parties with friends, play sports, or exercise together -- things of this nature. It seems to do something that makes us more affectionate and passionate.
Software engineer, a highly intelligent profession, just like accounting, finance industry, addicted to algorithms and data analysis structure, a few years ago I was also like you
But the daily repetition of life still requires people to take the initiative to create frequent topics and surprises, to break the silence, your answer is really very heartfelt
Never had such problem tbh. I am always doing something whether gaming, watching something, writing, reading and all those things bring up conversations all the time. Then even more so if your doing it with them. Got bands planned, talk about music. Stuff asked on here lol. Cool things one wants to buy. Youtube videos. Everything I do online. I am one who pretty much couldn't run out of things to say if I tried or something to do which then leads to new things been said. I think the key is just doing stuff through the day that can be talked about and if one is not... then I am not quite sure what there doing but it don't come across very fulfilling or active. Myself is a very active introvert with much to do.
Yeah. They can share what happens at work, they can plan something for future, watch something together. Just don't think about what to talk and go with the flow
A relationship is not a news entertainment show. Most guys aren't even into drama/gossip if that's what you mean. Get a hobby. Find something enriching to do. Spend more of your time doing this thing. Have shared hobbies that you both like too.
I think your asking the wrong question. What do you want from a relationship? Sometimes a partner that you see only on the weekends best. Sometimes it’s okay to just sit in the same room in silence each doing your own thing. Your never alone even if your alone if you do it with someone else.
A relationship is an important pillar in your life but it’s still just a part of it. You should maintain your individuality while making your partner happy. Most people don’t wanna talk all the time especially men.
Also in regards to keeping a relationship hot and new… your thinking about it wrong here in my opinion. Life is not happiness. Life is suffering and struggle and happiness is something you find to avoid suffering through struggle. Your not always gonna be hot for him. You both make a life goal and work together towards it to build a great life together. Sometimes your at your sisters, sometimes he’s on the couch… sometimes life hits you with that time of the month and the sex is ruined lmao! It’s not about how you should be but reacting to new difficulties together and in such a way as you both succeed.
People that think things always have to be a certain way generally don’t have happy marriages.
You dont need a meaningful fresh topic everyday. You even dont need a topic to talk about everyday. It sometimes just happens and if it doesn't, we are living our own lives
It depends on the connection between you two. a couple which has a string connection cannot fail to bring about new topics into there life, no matter if the topics make sense or not.
Why should we avoid talking about money, I think this is a topic that can be looked at directly, the two people together is definitely the right family
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