"Started hooking up..." How is that going? Are you able to enjoy time together with no drama? Do you want to marry him? Does he want to marry you? Is he stable enough to be a good partner? Are you?
I would not recommend marrying someone just because you want to be married. That tends to not work out. Eventually one person or the other realizes that it's not really what they want, or maybe they meet the person that they were previously looking for but never found. That happened to my brother and his wife. They were good together but they never seemed to be intellectually compatible. After some years they had an amicable divorce.
Well yeah, sounds like this guy is interested in more than just hooking up, but if you like the sex and he is going to make it more affordable for you to travel Europe then go for it.
Just because he kicks out money to pay for trips and to share that experience with you does not mean you will not fall in love with him. At the same time it does not mean that you will or ever will want to fall in love with him... but you at least get to go see things you might not see otherwise. Just be honest with him and say traveling sounds fun, about don't think that means you will ever commit to a relationship with him.
As far as the 10 year thing for marriage tell him to ask you 10 years from now and depending on where you are in life at that time you might give him a real answer.
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For only having a few months of dating behind your backs, he seems to have it all planned out already. But it might come back to bite him if things end up not working out between the two of you.
That doesn't square with not wanting a relationship with you
some pretty ass words.
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