Is it possible to reconnect with a ex - friend with benefits and get either the benefits back or stay friends with them? Your thoughts?

[scott04sa22]

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I’m not gonna contact her over lots and lots of reasons. She just one of those Woman who I just simply can’t have again like the others who I liked but I just can’t have them. Plus she has too much going on now

[mandyfire98]

It's possible. I had a friends with benefits a couple years ago. I started a relationship with a different guy and then when that relationship ended I saw my ex-fwb at a friend's house and he was still single and I told him about my breakup. That night we had sex and continued our arrangement as if it never ended.

[scott04sa22]

We wasn’t quite friends with benefits. We wanted too but we couldn’t because I was friends with her brother. As of now her Brother is no longer living and she’s now divorced.

[mandyfire98]

I mean if you like her give it a shot

[scott04sa22]

It’s complicated. I liked her back then. It’s better for me to be friends with her then being “ more then friends “ when I reconnected with her a few months ago she didn’t tell me she got a divorce from that time. I found out about the divorce from her now ex-husband Social media account.

[scott04sa22]

This was from recently

[mandyfire98]

If you feel more comfortable just being friends then keep it friendly

[scott04sa22]

I wish I could give it a shot but she’s always busy now and I know she’ll won’t feel the same way and doesn’t want to “ blow steam “ with me. She rather blows steam with someone else who’s she’s finds more attractive with. I know the type of men she likes.

[scott04sa22]

And who knows… she could be already dating somebody else already 🙄

[mandyfire98]

It's possible but only one way to find out. Maybe message her and see if she wants to catch up.

[scott04sa22]

It stresses her if I messaged her. Trust me she doesn’t want to “ blow steam “ with me or date me. There was somebody else from the past who she likes WAY more then me..

[Maddoggg2020]

Well it sounds like you already had the answer to your question before you posted it. Only way to find out is to just call her and see what happens.

[scott04sa22]

@Maddoggg2020 like I been telling the others she wouldn’t fuck or date me because she wants to fuck another best friend of mine who she finds WAY MORE attractive then me. She rather have him to be fucking her brains out then me.

[scott04sa22]

And it’s not the 1st time they fucked

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Depends on how good of friends you were to begin with, and Why or how it ended... And where both are currently in their life and relationships.

[scott04sa22]

Thanks for the feedback. I’m friends with her but I haven’t heard from her from a couple months.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Probably better to keep it just friends...

[scott04sa22]

Agreed. she has too much going on right now. I’m sure she’ll find someone better soon either short or long term or she already find somebody else. All my old crushes are now divorced.

[dreamstar72]

Check her now life before you do anything.

[scott04sa22]

I’m friends with her but She rather be hearing from someone else than me.

[dreamstar72]

Just as long she doesn’t have a steady friend. Take her out to a nice dinner and how a long friendly talk about your now life.

[scott04sa22]

She’s too busy and she rather have dinner with someone else who we knew and he’s a lot more charming then me. It’s better for me to be only friends with her

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

I don't do regression