What are some signs a guy is living with his ex?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’ve been seeing for 10 months all of a sudden is putting of me going to his! I used to go all the time now leaps asking me if he can come to my house. I live with my mom so I don’t just bring anyone round where as he lives alone since he’s a bit older. He’s also stopped replying as much and when we make plans he keeps saying ‘can I come to you’ and he keeps putting off me going to his unless he can come to me? I also saw. A video his daughters mom posted ( his ex ) and his voice is on the video? The last time I went round his I also saw female stuff and he said it was his kids but the things I saw we’re a pink razor and hair dye.

[Philyouup]

Whether he’s living with his ex or not him all the sudden limiting access to his house is a sign that perhaps he’s not that interested anymore

[Asker]

I’ve asked him if he wants to end things though and he keeps saying No I want to talk to you and see you and he messages me everydsy

[Asker]

So that’s why I’m confused on everything. And he keeps begging to come and see me which only makes me think someone is living there

[Philyouup]

ask him strait
out. tell him your concerns. communicate

[Asker]

I’m scared to ask him straight about the ex as I think he will lie. Thank you for you’re advice. Could I ask if he is back living with his ex why does he want to keep me around so bad? Is there any reasons for a man doing this.

[Philyouup]

selfishness maybe? i’m not sure. but you certainly research better. if he can’t be honest

[WhitneySnow]

Those are all some pretty good signs