Does anyone relate to gotten to the point where you just expect everyone to come up to you to violate your boundaries?

[Anonymous]

This is a problem for nice gentle sweet girls like me. I am very nice and trust people from the jump. It has failed me so many times. I start getting abused or taken advantage of and boudaries violated and people want to take take take from me.

[one1wild00]

I fully understand, it happens to the nice guys as well. I try to be kind and bend over backwards for someone just out of regular kindness then all of a sudden that's the new edge and they want you to bend more. Gets very irritating but is regularly normal in my area.

[emmajoyforever]

I so relate...