I am stupid to wait for a guy to decide to be with me?

[Anonymous]

We broke up about 4 months ago. Since then he hasn't stopped talking about wanting me back. We have religious differences so his mom doesn't approve. I know he is who I am supposed to be with so I have waited about 3 months for him to decide if he wants to restart the relationship. I am frustrated with him because he can't let me go but can't decide. I don't know what to do he tells me over and over he just needs more time and I am his future wife, Please help

[Anonymous]

Just move on. It is over with. If you really wanted him back you would ask him and if he really wanted you back he would ask you. I say just let it go.

You are waiting on the cows to come home. He might ask you and he might have moved on or found someone else by now. Many times when people wait like this you might as well sit and watch paint dry.

[NotGuru]

Yes you are stupid. If he really loves you, neither his religion, nor his mom can stip him being with you. He is fooling around, or he is not mature enough... Give him a day to decide, if he doesn't, move on

[Asker]

Thanks it's been painful

[NotGuru]

Later it'll be more painful, this might be the right time. Maybe this eay he'll realize what to do

[LazerBean]

Yes, you are stupid. Both for waiting, and also for having convincing yourself that "he is the one for me" when you have different values that are always going to clash and he can't even decide if he really likes you.

[Asker]

It's only Christian and catholic is not that big of a differene.

[LazerBean]

If the Catholic is devout, then it's going to be a huge difference whenever you get married and are deciding to have kids.

[Asker]

I told him we could raise our kids catholic. I am trying to make him happy but I can't convert.

[LazerBean]

You do realize that Catholics don't believe in any sort of contraception, right?

[boggboss]

Help with what u know your being a fool here u wanted to wait so wait as clearly the ball is in his court

[Asker]

Yeah i should have not put the ball in his court it's very hard to be kept waiting

[Stevefiveo]

You did everything you can. But he can't be a man a make a decision. Move on and find someone else.

[slatyb]

Time and tide wait for no man and neither should you.

[Intothevoid666]

Leave him