Is it cheating to kiss someone else on the cheek while on a break with your partner? (Page 2)

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So me and my boyfriend had dated for a year and a half and our parents decided it was time to take a break from each other. He’s my best friend so we spent a lot of time together. It was already hard not being able to be with each other and I started getting confused on how I still felt about him. I didn’t know if I was losing feelings and gaining feelings for someone else or it was just the stress of not being together messing with my head. So I wanted to see how I felt about this other person. So I kissed them on the cheek. Afterwards a realized I felt absolutely nothing for this person and decided to be honest with my boyfriend and tell him what I did and why I did it. He got really really mad at me and wouldn’t talk to me for almost an hour. It made me feel like I had just cheated on him and I am the worst girlfriend in the world for doing that. I felt terrible but also kinda relieved that I didn’t have feelings for this other person. But I also wanted to make things right with my boyfriend.  So basically my question is… was that cheating? Or was it not that big of a deal? Cause I am like half/half beating myself up for this.

Waldoe · Answer

you just told your "boyfriend" that he is "replaceable"... NOBODY wants to hear that... I bet he feels betrayed and unloved... some things are best left... Unsaid

1GoldTwins · Answer

No, people say hello that way! I'd be a serial cheater if kissing the cheek wasn't allowed.

LindsayR07 · Answer

No, a break is a trial separation... While on a break you are the same as single... You could have full on sex and it's perfectly fine.

Anonymous · Answer

If you are still together then yea being with someone romantically or sexually is cheating. If you are really that done then break up and see if later down the road if you want to get back together

Old_Golden · Answer

Kiss on the cheek isn't cheating. Especially if you felt nothing. Just tell him that and he'll be mad at first but if he's going to act like an adult he'll understand and check that anger

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

"I wanted to see how it felt" LOL really feel sorry for your boyfriend hopefully he finds a new girlfriend that doesn't go around.

bowenw · Answer

It's not cheating even if you're not taking a break from your partner.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

No because you guys are on a break, and anyway kissing on the cheek isn’t anything compared to the lips. I see the cheek as more innocent.

Andres77 · Answer

I didn't read the post. There is NO TAKING A BREAK! It's an excuse to cheat. Pure and simple. Really. 🤨

VikingWarLord · Answer

Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. Your mind will expand on this topic

Rebecka33 · Answer

No everyone deserved to get a hug and kiss on cheek front here dad

Valso · Answer

No. A kiss on the cheek means friendship, not a relationship.

aguyliknon · Answer

Nope, sounds like he may need to rethink why "the break" is still active.

EaterPeter · Answer

cheating is a strange thing. What is cheating for one person may not be cheating for another person. And then ethical and unethical

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Yeah kinda a bit tbh I mean it’s not like he wanted the break

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

It's not cheating if I kiss a new bitch on the snatch. "On a break" means free to get it elsewhere.

slatyb · Answer

There's no such thing as cheating on a "break".

baserunner611 · Answer

Break with partner explain

Sam_25 · Answer

You're such a wonderful person 😘

anton_dee · Answer

No. It ain't. Unless you were kissing naked 😏

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