Girls, Is it possible for an effeminate gay gay to be in love with his bestie platonic galpal?

[Anonymous]

Me best platonic friend knows I’m gay we’ve know each other for years, she’s helped me with everything from my cross dressing to finding me boyfriends. Trouble is I now feel deeply in love with her and could never imagine life without her. She has a boyfriend who’s everything I’m not he’s a sporty strong black guy who’s very friendly and nice and I’m not jealous of him, in fact I’m pleased for her that he makes her happy.
We spend lovely times together she and I but I don’t feel she’s in love with me. How do I tell her I’m in love with her?

[Red-Blaze]

I always feel its better to just say it, if you happy for her make sure its part of it and that telling her so she knows so its not a secret between you
If you ok with it being oike that for real, maybe saying it confuse you can also help
Mostly being honest I belive but keeping it in line
So its out there but not effecting what it shuld not

If you feel you do want to pogress stuff I belive try not to say till you feel comftruble with it and she is stable with her relashinship, from what I understand you dont want to changr her life so staying just jonest but not pushing it I belive is the right way to do it

[Asker]

Thankyou x
I’ve no desire to spoil things in her relationship or mine and hers
We spent all day together yesterday, her fella was working, we’re so close like sisters! Literally! X

[Red-Blaze]

Best of luck
Hope it all go well

[Asker]

She made it clear last night she’s in love with her sporty fella so I’ll back off on that one.
I’m going round there today to help her with her housework so it’ll be strange x

[Red-Blaze]

Hopefully subside over time and becomes less strange :)

[Flower7]

If he is, that would make him bi instead of gay.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is possible