Anyone "single forever" here?

[invalid1]

I just want to know if it is ok to live alone, everyone has got someone and they look down upon me. And many times they try to hurt me with this notion senselessly, mock that... etc.

I tried so hard to find love, I swear. I did all I can, I'm deadly loyal and loving from the inside. I talked with many girls, tried to understand their psychology approached them even in traditional ways. And I was rejected A LOT. And I am not giving another shot whatsoever because it has become personal between me and the other sex being straight. it was like (Go die, nobody wants you) Humiliated myself hard enough. But I don't wanna look back from now on! Because I did all I can,, and I want to move on and look ahead in my future and be happy alone. Shower myself with love, and when it comes to sex I have various alternatives, given that I am not keen to having children.

Is there anyone who spent a long time in their lives single? If it's you, can you help me out? ...

1- How did you handle social belittling and pressure?
2- Did you find satisfaction given all the positive side, such as more freedom, and less expenses?
3- Do people envy you, or is it the opposite?

[MCheetah]

Yeah, I'm short, so I'm doomed to Forever Alone, by default.
(And yeah, I know, other men my height or shorter simp and beg women to be with them anyway, and pay them whatever amount of money it takes for them to agree to a mutual 'coexistence,' and some of them get lucky with this, but that's not me. I would want an actual real relationship.)

"I tried so hard to find love, I swear. I did all I can, I'm deadly loyal and loving from the inside. I talked with many girls, tried to understand their psychology approached them even in traditional ways. And I was rejected A LOT."

You're preaching to the choir here! There's only so many times you can do that before you realize it's a waste of your finite time. We only get about 700,000 hours to live life in this world. And if you've wasted 700 hours on trying to find the right woman, only to be rejected because you're not "Chad enough" looking for her, then that's when you've got to reassess some things in life and maybe call it quits in that department and focus your energy elsewhere.

Believe me, that was literally my entire 20s. Just college, working, and trying to find love only to be told time and time again "I'm looking for someone taller." Or "I don't date outside my race/I only date white men" (regardless of them being non-white). Or "You couldn't afford me." Or some bullsh*t like that.

"But I don't wanna look back from now on! Because I did all I can, and I want to move on and look ahead in my future and be happy alone. Shower myself with love."

Good! That's how you should do it! Good for you, man. Congrats.

"1- How did you handle social belittling and pressure?"

Through sheer persistence.

"2- Did you find satisfaction given all the positive side, such as more freedom, and less expenses?"

I'm still in the middle of getting used to it. It's only been a few years, for me.

"3- Do people envy you, or is it the opposite?"

Nope. No one gets it. Even my best friend, who's getting married, says "women are a losing game" and that he constantly fights with his insecure (but beautiful and six foot tall) girlfriend he's engaged to. Neither one of us can tell whether being hopelessly single, or stuck in marriage, is worse.

I like to think of an old saying from fiction, to help me get through the lonely periods:

We're currently in the "Woke/Soyboy" phase of Western civilization. Give it a few decades.

[Malwi93]

U Short and fat? Dang

[MCheetah]

@invalid1
Thanks for Most Helpful Opinion.

[JohnagoodAncer]

I am in my 40's and never married, haven't had a real girlfriend since high school. To answer your first question, the only pressure I get is from my mom and she still tells me I'm going to find someone. The answer to the second question may sound a little creepy, but it is someplace I know I won't be judged, ridiculed, or rejected. I save up my money and have a night out at the local strip club. The girls are nice and fun to talk with. Your last question, I still envy other people. I wish I had a wife and a family, but I know it is probably better this way. I hope I was of some help to you.

[Shehnaz]

Hi, welcome aboard, I have been single and happy for quite sometime now, I live alone and enjoy my life to the fullest. I have never been belittled, mocked or insulted by anyone and tbh i avoid having friends on social media too. It's an extremely liberating lifestyle and i love every bit of it, after I stopped looking i have been approached by many, (I am actually good looking and work at a respectable position with a fortune 500 organization), but I turned every offer down. I an emotionally scarfree life.

[invalid1]

Hi five 🖐️.. once the money pours they hover like bees hah! 😆😜

[insteadfew]

Wow being a good looking female has its benefits and advantages / comforts... which other average looking men can't enjoy if they're single

[Qdbrown]

This is not uncommon to hear these days. Women going care-free and happily single up until about 35-45 when they begin to fall off everyone's radar, and they find they're spending more time with their fur babies.

[Oigit]

I have been single for years and focused on bettering myself. At this point I'm single because I'm not willing to risk the drama of dating or being in a relationship. Also I'm not willing to share my successes with another person. Because I have had next to no help with all the work I have done to better myself and my life. So why should I allow someone to benefit from it? Sure people will think that it's selfish to think that way. But their time energy and effort is better spent bettering themselves.

[LonelyTimes]

I am 27, turning 28 in a matter of months, and I never had a real girlfriend. I am a white guy who lives in the US. I am short in height at 5'6" and average looking. I am watching all my peers and even a lot of younger couples get married, have kids, or both. Meanwhile, I haven't even touched a woman sexually in over 7 years. It is seriously depressing.

[invalid1]

❤️ You're a great man. this is obvious. And all what women want is confidence, I think people should work hard to be disciplined like you. So don't give up hope. For me it's complicated, it's about how much money do they know I have. And I was raised unloved by my mother so kinda creates a gab of problem.

[invalid1]

Plus I also tend to generalise a lot.

[Qdbrown]

Another causality of online dating. You have a lot of women chasing around the top their guys, that unless you have something, that being looks and or resources, you will have a lot challenges finding a woman in this modern dating environment.

Best to just be yourself. Find out what you really like and do that and try to meet someone who has the same. interest. Don't actively chase women. It's a waste of time.

Chase your own excellence and some women will notice.

[invalid1]

nah nah hahah! I think you might be answering for someone else... not me!
If I chase my excellence, I do it for myself, not for women to notice. My dignity is more valuable than my own life.
I am after happiness, I don't even wanna breed! I want to fill some emotional and sexual chasms and that's it. if that's not filled I am fine I won't die.

But I want to make a decision, one where I fill myself and never give them another chance even if they come by themselves and open their legs after the first "hello!". say to a future me that has improved so much more and became wealthier. Because basically they're losing, not me!. I offered myself not perfect but with deep willing to make a woman happy, make some Queen. Fairly good looking guy, 130 IQ, have strong sexual skills, striving, successful, a lot of things that ought to be appreciated and embraced and much more for future improvements. Guys ten amounts lesser than me got partners, why? ($$$$$$)
So many daddy's boys who have their parents set up their future fully. I built myself from 0, so I am not falling for the superficial "women selection" bullshit.

If you never given me opportunity, and wasn't humble enough to embrace who I am. I don't think I am that much of a simp dog to search for love again... got it!

So have fun with your kids, have fun with your morning sex, and romantic show off on social media, the drama, the Amberish problems, and the boobs, and the channel perfume, and the make up.

While I be driving my Jepp on the beaches of Maldives. ending my day with ASMR fulfilling videos, and an ejaculation into an artificial vagina that's 100% accurate by the way. It's not like we're not living in the third millennium.
A lot to miss in this short life other than more liabilities 😉

[FictionalCharacter]

I don’t know if I’ll be single forever. But being single now, I have more space and opportunities to do something with my life.

[invalid1]

Don't you feel society compelling you to that. they might even not respect you because this is my case.

[Shehnaz]

In order to earn respect concentrate your energy and skillset to reach somewhere in life instead of worrying about being single and the social stigma if any in your case. Become someone and the respect pours in from all walks of life. People might not respect or even remember happy couples but they will certainly respect a single person if you become a personality instead of a person.

[invalid1]

So much schooling and prejudice in few sentences. basically I live in a conservative society, and they tend to view people with no commitments that they lack morality and values. That's what I meant!.
However I certainly do have a personality, you don't know me.
And yes we ought not to care about what people think but eventually we're social creatures. I deserve respect, I am highly respectful person.

much respect to you.

[melnc]

Relationships these days don't work so staying single was my best option to avoid drama I don't need. Being single doesn't mean you're a loser, some people aren’t actually lonely, they’re just single.

[cth2188]

I am 33 and limited experiences with men.. I am not interested in dating anymore and lost interest back in 2014. I haven’t been back in the dating world since that. I’m not seeking anything or anyone at this point, but I’m open to friends and gotten comfortable being single. Of course , I tested the waters with my sexuality as mostly dating women. It would be extremely awkward to date men when I don’t have much experiences with men. So, yes I focus on my career and well being.. at this point.

[LonelyFox]

Almost 24 now and haven't dated since high school and yeah it's really lonely! sometimes all I can do is fantasize about being with someone I really like and get along with. And even in high school the girls were immature and bitchy.. now though I'm not really interested

[rabbitzzz]

I haven't had the chance to meet as many girls. All the girls that were interested in me were either married or have boyfriend. Or the single girls I don't like. On top of that I am a computer engineer most of my time is spent on staring at screen. And I don't think I will have enough money to change this profession while I am young.

[serious]

Yes I have always been single and wish to remain single for life.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm not in a relationship right now. I'm content just seeing someone casually

[MCheetah]

Say hi to Mr. Hitachi for me! 👋

[bamesjond0069]

1. Make more money
2. Work out a lot
3. Take up some cool masculine hobbies mma, mountain biking, motorcycles, guns something.

Eventually you will be hot and rich and interesting and not so needy and you will get a girl.

[invalid1]

No thanks, who didn't deserve me at my worst, difinitely doesn't deserve me at my best.

[bamesjond0069]

Thats the same logic women use when they want men to marry them when they are 35 and have 4 kids from 3 different men. Only thing is you can change your situation and they can't.

[invalid1]

well we all have a point

[LilyoftheLake]

That's so sad! I can't imagine being single for so long...

[invalid1]

Not so sad. We're actually very happy people, life is short it is not worth it.

[invalid1]

And eventually most relationships turn up bad. it's the fact we hide.

[captain_voidwalker]

I am. I'm far to busy working 80 hours a week to waste time on something as... unfulfilling as women

[EarthRealm]

Go to YouTube Look up
Taylor the Fiend and
Ribby the party Frog.

[Anonymous]

You can get the used pussy after women turn 30 or have a kid from another relationship

[legalboxers]

yup... aspiring cat dad!

[Anonymous]

I think it's being alone forever is overrated

[Opinion Owner]

Been alone all my life. It sucks.

[Crankor]

It's the best time to learn anything you want to.

[Anonymous]

Being lonely forever sucks