I feel like a third wheel when my girlfriend's bestie comes around?

[Agosto88]

and now her best friend will be moving down stairs from us. I feel like when this happens things want be the same between me in her, don't get me wrong I have no problem with her friend and know the old sane friends are Forever, and boyfriends come in go. But the things I have done for her should show that I'm here for good an example is when her roommates kicked her out she had know where to go. Her own mom wouldn't take her but I gave her a roof over her head, and she didn't pay a single bill because she wasn't working at the time because her old job was seasonal but than again she does things for me and I love doing things for her and I believe she loves doing things for me too. But anyways I feel like she puts her friend before me I just want to spend time with her, so can anyone help me with this because I'm scared wants her friends moves downstairs we will grow apart. Also she has been cheated on a lot in the past with her past boyfriends could this have something to do with it? Best answer gets ten points!

[bassman]

Is this best friend a girl? I hope. Everyone needs time with their friends...time with themselves...and time with their significant other. What's important right now is when she's with you...is she really with you? Does she act like she doesn't want to be anywhere but with you when you're with her? Or...is she always texting her friends and spaced out when you two are on dates?

Its one thing if she's giving you less attention since this friend has come into the picture. Its a completely different thing if she acts less interested/excited when she's around you then she did when you began dating.

Less attention...to some degree is okay...but less excitement/ interest when she's with you is bad. I can better help you once you clear up these questions for me.