In sensitive moments and life's turmoil times or moments when you need your better half to be your voice my boyfriend is of no help. Instead I usually end up having to step up and also console him. I get so mad that I can't rely on him for support that I have no choice but to take action. For example my Cat of 22 years gets run over in front of me. I ran to her and grabbed her, sitting in a muddy puddle holding her as she cried in pain and me screaming in despair my boyfriend runs over and has his hand on his head frozen and crying. I'm crying stuck on the ground afraid to move her because she is undoubtedly broken and he's not doing anything. He doesn't reach to help me up with her he doesn't say get in the car.( to get her to a vet)... nothing! So I we gotta go we gotta get a vet right now... i can't get up still by this time my neighbor hears me screaming n runs over sees what's happened and holds both hands out to grab me off the ground then opens the truck door for me assists me inside. I tell my boyfriend let's go and finally he gets in to drive and is so distraught he is barely driving so I need to scream at him drive the F'in truck what are waiting for. Go gawd dammit! In the end I had to put her down but this I knew as she was 22years old but she didn't need to go that way... like in pain and he was prolonging her pain. He loved her like crazy and called her his daughter but he needed to step up for me and instead was worse off than me in every way! I really just needed him to take care of this whole situation for me. Is it wrong of me to feel that he should have?
I can't lean on my man when I need him to be strong for me, instead he crumbles along side me. What do I do when he can't handle anything?
