How innocent would you want your partner to be?

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My wording could probably be better but you get the idea.

Whatever2929292 · Accepted Answer

I want a good moral and Christian woman. That does not mean that she does not have a sense of humor and after we get married we won't do things and that she has to have a perfect past if she is a wonderful person now and even then just not making good decisions.

But she has to be faithful and willing to wait until marriage as well as not be sinful not that we don't all sin but you get the point.

There are other sins besides sexual ones too. I went with C but I could take A as well.

If I know a woman is well... promiscuous. The chances of her cheating on me goes up astronomically.

Another thing is there is more then sex in a relationship. There are other things as well... If that is all someone cares about that is why every relationship is a dead end. There is nothing there but just getting off anymore. Just anyways not going there

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

Very much not innocent (makes sexual jokes often, says very promiscuous things)

Ideally, she'd a a virgin who's find me highly attractive sexually and physically and basically be very open to me, so she'd make a lot of sexual jokes, tease me, etc.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Eh, I'm far from innocent. I may not have had sex yet, but I am definitely NOT innocent. What is your definition of "innocence" anyway? Virginity =/= purity.. at least, to me. A person's worth should not be measured by their virginity, that is awful.

I am option D.

Who doesn't know anything about sex? That's quite weird. I'd like a laid back guy who makes flirty jokes and is willing to be playful and goofy with me. I'm not bold enough to make promiscuous jokes, but I would be flirty with my partner and would not mind if he does the same. I would not like to date a guy who is pushy and is only after sex though.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I do not believe that innocence means you know nothing about sex. As a Christian I know how to attract men who find me acceptable cause it’s written in my genetic make up and I know guys who date very few people that are more charming than billionaire dating coaches, cause having healthy emotions makes you naturally attractive, you don’t have to look at porn to be talented at attracting people into marriage.

hotwife98 · Answer

It can be a bit cringey when someone is overdoing it with sexual references... makes me think they are childish and only thinking about one thing.

But I like a joke and definitely have a giggle when something dirty comes up.

Just don't be a freak lol!

Jadeli · Answer

To be honest if I know all of these things, he should know more, like I want him to know more but to be mature at the same time.

ElvenMr · Answer

Voted "Not so innocent", but "Very much not innocent" could be good as well.

Being too sexual, or saying sexual jokes at all times would be tiring after a while.
But i don't mind if someone is like that, only if they do it extremely often, like all the time.. not every conversation needs to be sexual.

Minahh · Answer

I like the idea of a very innocent partner. My boyfriend had one relationship before me and it already makes me overthink things. I feel like every past relationship "ruins" you in a way for the next person. I just like the idea of being each other's first everything.

NobodyXox · Answer

I want to make sex jokes all day long with my partner.  I don't want them to be innocent at all. Sex is normal and healthy. Everyone and everything has sex.

Adam1978 · Answer

There is a difference between innocent and naive, that is important to distinguish in this context. She can be completely innocent but she can't be naive and think everyone is.

Anonymous · Answer

its kinda hard to stay innocent in this world as long as she believes the king and tries to do what he says not looking for perfection

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Not so. He just has to be a good person in my eyes. That is enough.

mermaidcancermoon · Answer

I need a chill partner give me a sexual comedian that slaps ass cheeks.

Ehjoh1 · Answer

I don't want my partner to be not so innocent but neither want I her to be a promiscuous slut that doesn't care about cheating or doing it with every guy. I would say the same thing about guys if I were a girl.

woman_2004 · Answer

I’m a virgin so I probably would want a partner who kinda know what he’s doing… so I can learn

Man-O-Metal · Answer

I like extremely innocent. Not a fan of the s** jokes. Would rather my partner not even understand them cuz half of them go over my head anyways.

Lliam · Answer

I voted 'E'. The last thing in the world I care about is virginity or freaking "purity". And innocence is boring.

cth96190 · Answer

To borrow from comedian Billy Connelly, I would rather have a flaming whore that a trembling virgin who did not know what to do.

fonduegirl · Answer

My ex was balanced one. I can go for either of the above, so long he doesn't feel the need to s1ut sh6me others.

Berethor · Answer

Not so innocent discussion-wise, if she not a virgin her innocence is quite fake anyway.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I only want her to be innocent in experience. I actually think it's hot if she knows things; I don't mind that at all. (I don't even care if she masturbates; I think that's hot, too!)

lucas262 · Answer

I mean we'd both be virgins on our wedding day. That said I don't consider myself innocent , not with my browser history.  So I don't expect her to be naive. Nobody is very naive today anyways.

clampfan101 · Answer

A, B, and C are all great in different ways… Very difficult decision… 🤔

bean2k21 · Answer

I will tolerate it as long as she is willing to accept her punishment And strive to do better in the eyes of her Master

sheikalana · Answer

I don't mind if my partner has an innocent personality but I when I was dating I wanted someone who was as experienced as me.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I'm all for sexual jokes, it's fun but if he is being a ho then it's a problem.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Verbally? 100% option E, but also a virgin physically. Prudes are impossible to date.

exitseven · Answer

I would like her to be a little mor einnocent than me.

jammcm · Answer

I want to be able to share everything. Even sexual jokes. When I see someone that is appealing to either one of us I want to be able to talk about it.

anylolone · Answer

As innocent as possible criminally wise. And knowledgeable enough about sex to know what she wants and how to get it/do it.

driven159 · Answer

If they were going to be a lifetime partner, then very innocent to grow together and have fun exploring things if not then a very naughty woman

sp33d · Answer

At my age, probably someone fucked in the head in all the right ways. E it is.

zagor · Answer

Of murder? Completely. She can be innocent as long as she is willing to learn.

Dnice1 · Answer

A sweet kind Christian man but behind closed doors, a sweet kind naughty sexual man 😜

andy530 · Answer

Not at all innocent I want her to be a nympho like me

MCheetah · Answer

Moderately Innocent to Balanced. Either one.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I'm a dirty heathen and I need to date a peer.

lickysplit · Answer

not to worried about that, how eager is she to learn and how active is she

Anonymous · Answer

I mean.. swingers house is everywhere. it's impossible

TacosRAwesome · Answer

C or D. I don't want to explain jokes to them.

Anonymous · Answer

I always liked experienced even when I was not.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Not so innocent for me.

OddBeMe · Answer

As opposed to guilty of sex?

cootjuhh · Answer

totally sexual

WhitneySnow · Answer

Balanced like me

petitedollbabee · Answer

Not innocent at all.

Anonymous · Answer

D not so innocent.

Iron_Man · Answer

Virgin girl

Loveisgirthy · Answer

Let it all out!

Jouth · Answer

innocent enough

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Moderately. 😜

Zolly99999 · Answer

A good girl virgin

Sabretooth · Answer

95% or more.

Anonymous · Answer

A virgin.

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