What was the biggest or best lesson you learned from your first relationship/breakup? (Page 3)

[skydragonx5]

That’s actions speak louder then words, that people do change , to always put yourself first, that love isn’t always enough to make something work , to put my mental health over anyone I’m dating , that in the end a promise means nothing.

[skydragonx5]

That love is a strong word so never just say it. Never take a ex back if they dump you over something small then beg for you to take them back

[RealMarek]

Don’t try to make a dysfunctional relationship with a crazy person work for 20 years before finally breaking up.

[nitsuj86]

"Hot" women are more trouble than they are worth. lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Learned that there's no point to a relationship if you can't be yourself a found them

[Hairylegs222]

That some women are crazy. Also helped me figure out what I really want and can't have from a partner.

[maximumpower]

first relationship: avoid drama queens.
first serious relationship: avoid women bent on marriage based upon their biological clock, rather than your (collective) well-being.

[exitseven]

Bail out when things are not going good. Know when to cut your losses.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Never become obsessed with a girl in a relationship

[boobliker]

get in to sex asap to find out if they are any good at it if not find the next one

good sex holds you both together more than money!

[Valso]

The lesson was to never trust a woman and that love is an invention of the gold diggers to trick you into thinking they actually care about you.

[Jamesshinobi]

dont pool money and resources. Always have an escape plan. when kissing with tongue stops, its time to bounce

[blondfrog]

Nobody has ever broken up with me I am undefeated :D. Also never been in a official relationship. I still yet have to make my relationship debut ;)

[Andres77]

Loving them more will not encourage them to treat you better

[Justneedtokno]

Don’t disregard your gut feelings. Learn to be patient with yourself. Don’t rush

[KatherineJ]

Accept people as they are and don’t think you can change him/her.

[Adronicus]

NEVER invest more of myself than she's willing or able to.

[Massageman]

That serious relationships do not really develop when you are 13.

[Thatdude091699]

Values matter more than anything. No amount of interests or hobbies can get past that.

[vduong1988]

i just move on forget my ex boyfriend i don’t even like him

[Anonymous]

Never let anyone take advantage of you. I definitely learned that one after ex got out of jail I found out he was already back with his ex and I spent all of that money to get him out.