Is it your fault for choosing to be with a terrible partner? (Page 2)

[DizzyAster2]

It's not your fault if you choose them, but is your fault if you stay.

[OddBeMe]

It’s the nature vs nurture argument…sort of.
Are serial killers personally guilty because they had a shitty childhood?


Yes because we all make our own choices. Despite whatever might be influencing us like upbringing.

[Shy_Steve]

We all make mistakes, But staying with him or Her is your own fault.

[crossdressingrihno]

Yeah. I've been in an abusive relationship but I refuse to let that happen again.

[TheeTrybrid]

Sometimes people just are too attached to that person feeling like things will eventually will go back to the way they used too or they feel like no else will love them

[BoobMan]

How else's fault could it possibly be?

[Asker]

I think Boob man could also be at fault, he seems very... booby yeah...

[BoobMan]

What'd I do? lol!

[Asker]

Nothing lol I was just trying to be funny 😹

[BoobMan]

Hahaha! I know--it's all good!

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes... there's always signs.. You either decide to do something or not but you're always aware..

[MikeInHawaii]

Yeah, for the most part. Especially when you remember not having a partner is always an option.

[douride2]

Of course it is your fault. You could simply choose to not be in or leave a terrible partner.

[Anonymous]

Choosing a terrible partner? No.

Choosing to stay with a terrible partner? Yes.

[idkIoI]

They are in the wrong for being bad but you obviously chose wrong.

[Staximus]

Once you figure out how terrible they are, it's time to leave

[truthisthree]

women only want what they consider the top% of guys

and those men have endless options
good luck

[EmyyWolf]

That’s because mfs LIKE YOU, choose not to be the top% of guys. Don’t blame women for their nature.

[truthisthree]

@EmyyWolf

I do not believe in evolution
I do not believe in female nature

FOR MY GOD CHRIST IS ABOVE THE DOME
and I believe what GOD above the dome said

( FEMALE CHOICE )

this is a choice on the females part
AND I ACCEPT IT

but accept the consequences that come with it

cause if you want to remove GOD above the dome
and put evolution in to replace him

okay do it

LET THE MEN OF THE WORLD ACT ON INSTINCT
and lets see how long you women last
in a world with no GOD in the minds of MEN

( RILEY WHITELAW )

poor girl

[MikeInHawaii]

@EmyyWolf I didn’t choose not to be 6’ 2”. I do choose to be low key about my income to weed out gold diggers, though.

[Marshymallow]

If you knowingly accept it then yeah

[spartan55]

Well who else's fault would it be? The mailman's?

[loveslongnails]

Who else's fault would, or could, it be?

[Bob92220]

I used to date a girl that blamed her parents, brother and sister, grandparents, her job, society, and laws. She had plenty of people to find fault with that caused her problems.

[loveslongnails]

@Bob92220 That's typical, isn't it? It's everyone else's fault but never your own.

[Bob92220]

It's fascinating to me that the person who blames other people actually has reasonable explanations. There is always a little bit of truth in their accusations.

[loveslongnails]

@Bob92220 The only portion of truth that I can imagine would be significant, is that the other person was a really good player and deceived well. The siblings and parents could have been deceived too, and encouraged the relationship. But the bulk of the decision remains with the individual, don't you think?

[Bob92220]

I agree with you. I knew one person like this and these were her excuses in life. She actually said these to me.
"I'm unable to work because I have to stay home and support my husband."
"My husband is an alcoholic and a narcissist. The reason I married him was that he "love bombed" me when I was 27 years old."
"Every relationship I've been in, romantically or not, has been based on lies and deceit. I'm the most honest person and I never lie."
And then she pegged me as someone who lies and is deceitful.

[loveslongnails]

@Bob92220 Sounds about right. That's about as ridiculous as you would expect.

[Fuentes]

We always see the red flags

[WhitneySnow]

Not my fault. They deceived me.

[Uptowngirl88]

Omg the airhead questions again

[Asker]

i'll buy you a cup of coffee, i know you have been struggling to sleep.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if you know its a dead end and stay anyway.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Never marry; never cohabitate.

[Asker]

I am religious so i fail to understand why other religious people who marry religiously see the need to include the law into their marriage and go and legalize their marriage, if i ever get married I am going to do it at a church, nothing expensive the spirituality aspect of it is what concerns me the most and i'm not going to legalize it at all, if we ever split up we will decide amongst ourselves who keeps what like adults, as for the bank account thing i noticed most people join their accounts after marriages i think thats a horrible idea, you being with someone does not mean that you shouldn't have your independence i think stuff like sperate cars, separate accounts is great and if y'all buy each other gifts then that person should still be able to keep that gift even after y'all spilt up, you cannot take back a gift and you cannot take back a promise or a vow! anyone who does take backs is toxic! This is why they say never make any vow/promise and never give any gifts that you are going to one day take back! so if a person does take backs it means they just do things and say things without thinking about it first and without being 100 percent sure.. that's sooo not cool.

[Asker]

I was just responding to your comment here to show that marriage can be a super a easy affordable process if it's done for all the right reasons, and if you marry the right soul.

[Luopio27]

I won't stick around in toxic relationships.

[countrygirl8754]

Ya it is

[QuietRunner]

it is called Pro-Choice

[ronaldo75]

YES. Its your fault.