Is it your fault for choosing to be with a terrible partner?

So you meet a girl or guy and you fall in love with them and you find them attractive so is it your fault then if you enter a serious relationship with that girl or guy or marry them and then while with them realize that they are actually very toxic, dishonest, abusive, narcissistic, cruel and selfish?

I mean Afterall you are the one who chose that person as a partner...
Is it your fault for choosing to be with a terrible partner?
It's not my fault 😡
It is my fault 🥺
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Is it your fault for choosing to be with a terrible partner?
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