Its hard for men to find decent partners but guess whose fault that is?

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Sorry guy, it's your fault.

Its hard for men to find decent partners but guess whose fault that is?

Here's why:

1. Men have placed so much emphasis on sex that now majority of women are brainless, no personality, no self respect and no morals are all that's left. All they bring to the table is looks.

2. Women who have beauty and brains have been criticized by men because they're career oriented and selective when choosing a male companion. Men often refer to them as getting old and will be lonely forever.

3. Men just won't stfu. They're hypocritical. They say they want a sexy woman yet call her a hoe for being sent. If she's covered up and has morals she's boring.

4. They just never stop complaining nothing is ever good enough for them.

5. Women got tired of men's games. Now men want to settle down after decades of games. Women aren't interest sorry

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

There are 4 types of men in my opinion:

1. She has a job. Probably a feminist I hate her.

2. She doesn't have a job. She only want me for the money.

3. She isn't attractive enough. Probably a 7/10 or lover. I just ignore her whenever I talk about women online not wanting to date me. 80% of women go for 20% of all men. (that only includes the women who I find attractive though).

4. Real men that are not internet trolls who have a personal, non quantifiable taste.

Maybe it is us women. We dont want to date the 80% of internet trolls. Cry that we dont want to date you and tell us again how you are not 6feet and dont have a 2meter dick. Thats probably the real reason. Its not the fact that you spread misogyny comments, that makes you an alpha!

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The last part is obviously satire. I believe it is the fault of statistics that make the wrong people focus on the wrong parts. When a statistic says there are more singles than ever before, some people make the assumption its not their own fault, because its a global phenomenon. Instead they should focus on the common part between them and the other rising singles. Basically it turned into a self fulfilling prophecy that single% are rising because these people who are endangered to be included in that number are mostly the people who focus too much on the part that its a global phenomenon and out of their hands. Yes there are a lot more people not interested in partners or career oriented but these are not the people complaining about these statistics. Bassically I agree with you for the most part but I dont think its the majority of men. Its a loud minority.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

Yes definitely on your 2nd point. We’re career oriented and we have hobbies, interests, social lives outside of serving men and babies and they can’t stand it.
Not only that, decent women with brains are also selective in regards to a man’s attitude and behavior. We vet for men who are loyal, emotionally regulated, cooperative, pleasant, supportive, initiative with effort, with excellent listening and communication skills.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

1. I am totally guilty of too much emphasis on sex. But I also live in a party city. My friends that live in big cities, that are not party scenes, don't seem as obsessed with sex. So could it be a little bit of a geographical issue? I don't know. And don't get me wrong I chose to live in this city. A lot of it had to do with sex!

2. I kind of disagree with this one. My friends that make a lot of money, run businesses, doctors, etc, will always admire a woman who has put in the work. I have definitely dated the whole spectrum, from broke waitresses to one girl who was damn near a billionaire. Brains are definitely still a turn on.

3. Agree

4. I agree here, but women do the same thing. I think now it's a matter of options. You have a ton more options. With internet dating, or even just the simplicity of mobility. It's easier to transfer jobs, it's easier to move to a different state, or even a different country.

5. Agree

But all in all, I don't know if I would say it's anybody's fault? I mean I feel like my friends that really want to settle down, are settling down. Whether they are male or female friends. But again this could be geographical. Besides being a party city, I also live in a big city, which means there are plenty of options good and bad. Either way I hope for the best for everyone whether it's casual relationships for long term love ❤️

Chthou95 · Answer

1. That's exactly the problem. Women dont bring much to the table to the table but expect men to bring everything to the table due to simps always being on horny mode. I can agree with that one

2. Men dont care about your finances or success. Men value other things and its not just sex but women make the mistake of thinking men care about those things

3. Men want a woman to be a sexual just for them in the bedroom They don't want a woman showing her sexual parts to the world. If the man has no intention of dating you, he won't care that how you dress. You're in the fuck zone, not relationship zone

4. Men accept things but can still talk about the issues or problems. Doesn't have to mean they're complaining

5. You mean the fuckboys that women despite bitching about continue to see and have sex with those men while having the supposed standards and rules for the good boy

Women aren't angels in any of this either. They have their faults as well

McLlovin · Answer

Take responsibility and stop blaming others. Women need to stop blaming men for things they do and for the circumstances they are currently in. That’s childish.

Its Women fault for being so easy and for the majority women acting like secret hoes behind closed doors with only fans.

And its men fault for those who cater to those women by giving them attention.

These things have destroyed the dating pool and made it a rare occurrence to find a decent person who isn't in it for only sex, has a body count of 30+ .. and thats considered a low end. Finding a woman whos life isn't neck deep in social media who is willing to ditch looking sexy on social media to have a man in her life. Thats considered asking a lot. And then we go and see crazy posts life this saying its men’s fault… that irritates me. Its no singular blame but it darn sure isn’t only men.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think both sides have treated each other unfairly over the years which breeds contempt from both sides.

Sure there are men and women out there that are assholes that fit your list above (been around since the dawn of time) but there are quite a few out there that would love the opportunity to find a person that has a positive/uplifting spirit and want to be part of that. Someone they would treat with kindness and respect.

As long as fault and blame are being pointed, then that negativity will hang over the person like a cloud and that'll be the first thing anyone sees.

Sometimes you have to forgive and forget how some assholes have treated you in the past and move in a positive direction. After all, if they are an asshole, then you dodged a bullet which is a positive thing! One of my rules to live by, is don't let assholes rule your life. It goes by so quick and letting someone drag you down is not worth it.

Paul09 · Answer

Odd. I do not believe in any of that. My experience, I'm not good enough or hot enough for women. Women play games, you have to guess if they like you with all these secret hints. Feels like when I go on dates it was always one sided. I interviewed then and laid for their meal.. yet they dont ask about me. Haven't dated in years because of that, and the fact that today is even harder to find a date. Women have a bigger selection. Yes plenty of men for under what you have said. Bit I'm far from that.

LazerBean · Answer

Yes, everyone is responsible for how their own life turns out. If a man or woman cannot find a good spouse, it's because they are either lacking or slacking. Only whiney people with no accountability think otherwise.

CozyCoffin · Answer

I gave up after a long time of looking. I understand that everyone has their own preference and I could have kept going until I dropped dead. I don't blame women, I've never said anything rude or mean in response, nor have I said anything misogynistic or blame them for my single status.

I felt it was a waste of time as all i kept getting was some form of "no" for fifteen years, besides two women. One wanted to control me, from what I believed in to who my friends were. The other, was a potential long distance relationship that I messed up on. I'm dealing with seizures all the time. Would someone date someone that may have one at any time? I'm new to this, having my first in 2021 and finding out I had brain cancer.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Both are very much at fault. Too many women became sluts and a lot of men became weak, whiny and don't want to take responsibility for a family.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Statistically it isn't the men who are desperate to settle down, especially once you factor out the incels. I'm not sure what your experiences have been of course, nor the men you know, but I've seen no changes to the old saying that women are the gatekeepers to sex but men are the gatekeepers to relationships.

Apple1996 · Answer

Men dug themselves their own graves on this. 100% their fault

laly520 · Answer

look in bad places n u will find bad people some guys do it for emselves looking in wrong places, giving wrong persons chances

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

It's funny when I see post like this and it's not our fault that all on women. Women have been sexualizing themselves way before men even thought of doing that why do you think they call prostitution the oldest profession in the world

LiamS95 · Answer

Why have you got Julia Robert's as your profile photo?

fuddly · Answer

You have a point It's "Darwinian selection" But where are all the beauties in my life? I agree the young girls are all fake tan And fake eyelashes

Anonymous · Answer

Both it seems but I thought you were older when reading this and speaking from years of experience

NathanDavis · Answer

never had an issue

exitseven · Answer

Both it takes two to tango.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I never had any trouble finding a decent partner.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

I agree with you

war_daddy · Answer

no, it's because women are whores now. all of you

Its hard for men to find decent partners but guess whose fault that is?

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