So my fiancé and I are having a small
wedding in December… and I wanted to invite my best friend, (it’s in a different state) but I told my fiancé that she may or may not be coming. Whenever her and I go to parties or things in a new place with new people, she always gets so sick and has a horrible migraine and can’t eat and then usually is irritable for the rest of the time (which I understand.) so I was just telling him about this saying that I was worried she might get sick, because of the environment, so I wanted to talk to her about it.
He responded to that just saying: you can’t just uninvite her, that’s rude, she’s going to be so hurt, all this stuff implying that I was just going to not be kind to her.
One she is already invited and I would never do that, all I was saying was that I wanted to talk to her about it.
Now after our conversation i am feeling hurt, because my fiancé jumped to the conclusion that I was just going to uninvite her and not let her come, he didn’t really hear what I said…
I talked to him about it, and he just said that he didn’t want me to be rude to her, but I don't know did I give that connotation? Also am I just being petty?
