How long did it take you to trust your partner?

[Passing_by]

Or your ex if you two aren't together anymore

[NathanDavis]

like, four seconds... I trusted them right away

just not fully

trust is about progress, it is a gradual thing, to me anyway... it is not just like a switch that goes on and off and from zero to a 100...

but with all of them I just got the right vibes, right away... and then I spend any amount of time, hours, days, weeks, making sure that it was as right as it felt, and then yes... it happened to be true, it became absolute trust over time, and there were no issues with it

[LogicalGal123]

Depends on the situation. For me, it took about a month just to see where we are at. TRUST is very important and valuable in the relationship. Then there's RESPECT, and COMMUNICATION that goes along with it. It depends, I trust my boyfriend when he is out traveling somewhere or when he's going out with his friends because I know what he does when he's out, same goes with me when I'm traveling and out with friends. Plus, we respect each other and communicate with each other. It goes both ways for the both of us not one.

[DermalPunch]

I cannot ever trust anyone, especially, a man fully. But, I'd Inlove him and I haven't caught him I will spare him "The First 48" questioning but I'm always taking mental notes. Sadly, as much as I love man, I'm just waiting for the day I catch him cheating or being inappropriate. It won't be changing but I can mostly keep it to myself. I don't even trust myself now I gotta trust him too? Yeah, don't have those sorts of resources but I can pretend.

[Passing_by]

Sounds heavy. This is the dilemma I often have too. A healthy relationship is meant to be built on trust and if you don't trust your partner, it's a very heavy burden for you to anticipated a heartbreak all the time

[DermalPunch]

It is. I am also someone who feels things way too deeply. I treat it like something that flares up. Often, I'm right. Sometimes I'm deep in my paranoia that I just go all out with it. Mine just sighs and keeps loving me or stops the shennanigans depending.

[Passing_by]

Same here. Although I have stopped over thinking since I got out of my last relationship. There's this inherent sense of cynicism which at times takes me off of having faith in serious relationships as they seem to good to be true.

[DermalPunch]

Hahha. Guess what's gonna happen to you. You will get your tgtbt relationship. You will try to screw it yp as much as possible and convince yourself of every scheme and ruse they are pulling on you and you won't be able to get rid of them. They will wonder why you love them you will think they are crazy for loving you and you guys can't do anything else but be. It sucks.

[Passing_by]

Damn. Minus the part where I tried to sabotage the relationship and thinking they are crazy for loving me, that's exactly what happened to me in my relationship. I tried to save but something or the other used to screw it up. Even thinking about it now drains my head. Ugh..

Highly agree though, it indeed sucks.

[Wubs3000]

About 1.5months. I thought I trusted them but a couple weeks ago I was having insecurities about cheating that stemmed from self doubt and not fully trusting them, but now I think I do fully trust them and those insecurities are gone.

[Passing_by]

Good for you!

[jennifer_bloom]

I trusted him when we first started dating but his lack of initiative made me suspicious. Later we broke up and he wanted to consider a reunion a year later but we mutually decided not to.

[Pinay_ako]

The moment I decided to love him

[EmmaMary]

It took me almost sixteen months before I felt comfortable and trusting enough for us to actually move in and live together.

We lived together for five years and have been married for four years.

[Passing_by]

Very nice!

[JaxiCats]

It’s taking me a while I trust him a lot for what I’ve been through but there are things like my anxiety that I struggle with opening up about and don’t fully trust him with that knowledge

[Passing_by]

Very understandable. For how long have you two been together, if I may ask?

[JaxiCats]

Almost a year and a half. We’ve known each other since sophomore year so about 3 years knowing each other but 2 years of active engagement and getting a lot closer and stuff

[krockysolid]

I usually go for trusting first when I first meet you what gives me any reason to not trust you or believe anything that you say until proven otherwise is when I will start to lose trust for you but when I meet them I usually give him the benefit of the doubt and trust everything they do and say until they or if they prove otherwise

[endoftheline]

With my ex, it took me around 2 months to trust him completely.

Kinda unrelated but is that you in the picture?

[Passing_by]

Yeah it's me.

[endoftheline]

Damn 🥵 you hot!

[Passing_by]

Hah, thanks :D

[endoftheline]

Np...😬

[erika25]

Never lol. We’ve been together for 4 years, he never cheated on me but I do not fully trust anyone. Couples who have been married for 10 years and are loyal to each other can betray each others after years…

[Twalli]

I begin by trusting her without any evidence to suggest she's truthful. Unless she beings acting in a way that betrays my trust, I don't have any reason to doubt her, and because of that my trust grows into a well informed trust.

[Lucy68]

With my ex at first it was within 4 months, after that I never trusted him.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I ever trusted my ex
Especially not after he abused me

[Passing_by]

That's unfortunate. Hope you are in a better place now :D

[sheikalana]

A few months and a few conversations about our insecurities.

[maximumpower]

6 months.
About the same amount of time that I trusted her after we married.
It was a scam on her part.

[Aas007]

I would take me, dating for 4-5 times before trusting my partner

[dustybiker]

Immediately. It was the way I met him.

[fiveinthemorning]

2 weeks to thrust her.
2 years to trust her.

[exitseven]

I cannot think of a time when I didn't

[Anonymous]

About one year.

[Passing_by]

One year after knowing him or one year after getting into a relationship?

[MUHAMMADSHAFFQAT]

One night