She has been severely sick with kidney stones for the last 3 months, and basically our entire relationship has turned into her saying she is in pain and me saying “I’m sorry”. We barely talk about anything else, she doesn’t have energy for anything, and the few times we have hung out she is basically moaning the whole time.
I obviously want to comfort her and support her, but this is killing me. I don’t know how to tell her to stop complaining so often about literally everything. I feel horrible because I know she doesn’t want this, but there just isn’t a relationship anymore. How do I tell her to stop complaining as much when she constantly has something going on? I don’t know how to respond to these texts and interactions with anything but support? I feel like I can’t tell her to stop complaining because that is just cruel when she is just looking for comfort.