They’re insecure and they get a kick out of it when the guy gives them attention despite having someone. It’s really disgusting but really everyone sees them as the venom and vile people of society.
Several possible reasons: 1) Less chance of his taking them up on "offers" 2) He's a challenge - need to see if she has the skill/attraction to get him to break his vows 3) If he does go for it there's less chance of a committed relationship and less that the news will get around (which it does, anyway) 4) Showing off around her harpy friends
people want something that has value and he would have proven his value socially to someone else, so interest goes up. the more value the more demand.
same psychology for material goods... crowd behavior...
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I'm not sure that's true.
Girls at my work used to flirt with me all the time and I went through a boat load of them until I finally settled down with one
She doesn't even work there anymore but all the other girls know I'm taken and I don't even get a hopeful glance anymore. It's starting to hurt my feelings a little bit. What the hell happened? Even the new girls don't show any interest after they inevitably hear someone asking me how Sarah is
Lack of self esteem (regardless of what she says or front she puts up). She can find herself attractive even. But she knows deep down she's inferior. Which is why she tries to take every man from other women. It's her way of proving her worth. Yeah I know it's kind of f***ed up. But some women are just like that.
Basic evolution: a man who can keep a woman is a man of certain value which is attractive to other women looking for a "keeper" It's a little twisted but not an unnatural behavior
I dont. Women who do that have some form of personality disorder. Thats not normal. Its a huge red flag. I've had to leave female friends because of that
Sometimes its a case of they want something they can't have, sometimes its just a wandering eye. Other times its that they see that he's a committed person with great qualities that has stuck by another woman and wishes they were that woman.
What’s in my mind are my observations. Women seem to fawn over taken guys and ignore single dudes and men are the opposite, they are turned off by the idea of her getting porked by that guy
@Dermott2000 it ent just my opinion. When a man is desperate he’ll have your view, when he can afford to be picky he’ll choose younger women with less partners
Same principle as to why people are hesitant to apply for a company that is always hiring. S chronic single man is viewed as having something undesirable about him whereas a taken man has been verified.
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It’s either the guy gave them a motive and didn’t tell them they were taken and then later find out they are… ORRR their just envious about the relationship and it really doesn’t have anything to do with the guy and they’re just lonely asf.
@RandomGuy1030 Lol on the contrary. I chose who I wanted to have sex with for the first time based on several different factors... fan girls were not one of them.
@RandomGuy1030 lol I never said. He was a catch lmao he was what I wanted for a reason and he served his purpose. Lmao it’s not like I wanted to marry him haha
What type of women are you dealing with? Lol. Most of thbe time if a woman goes for a man who is taken it'd because 1. Guy downplayed is current relationship 2. Pretends he's not in a relationship
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They’re insecure and they get a kick out of it when the guy gives them attention despite having someone. It’s really disgusting but really everyone sees them as the venom and vile people of society.
Several possible reasons:
1) Less chance of his taking them up on "offers"
2) He's a challenge - need to see if she has the skill/attraction to get him to break his vows
3) If he does go for it there's less chance of a committed relationship and less that the news will get around (which it does, anyway)
4) Showing off around her harpy friends
people want something that has value and he would have proven his value socially to someone else, so interest goes up. the more value the more demand.
same psychology for material goods... crowd behavior...
I'm not sure that's true.
Girls at my work used to flirt with me all the time and I went through a boat load of them until I finally settled down with one
She doesn't even work there anymore but all the other girls know I'm taken and I don't even get a hopeful glance anymore. It's starting to hurt my feelings a little bit. What the hell happened? Even the new girls don't show any interest after they inevitably hear someone asking me how Sarah is
Bunch of bullshit
Well you should only be focused on Sarah
I am focused on Sarah, Sarah. It just feels nice to still be wanted. Especially as you get older
Lack of self esteem (regardless of what she says or front she puts up). She can find herself attractive even. But she knows deep down she's inferior. Which is why she tries to take every man from other women. It's her way of proving her worth. Yeah I know it's kind of f***ed up. But some women are just like that.
Basic evolution: a man who can keep a woman is a man of certain value which is attractive to other women looking for a "keeper"
It's a little twisted but not an unnatural behavior
I dont. Women who do that have some form of personality disorder. Thats not normal. Its a huge red flag. I've had to leave female friends because of that
Sometimes its a case of they want something they can't have, sometimes its just a wandering eye. Other times its that they see that he's a committed person with great qualities that has stuck by another woman and wishes they were that woman.
It's a human issue that peoe just keep getting attracted to taken people, it just gives a taboo pleasure to them , no reasoning with them
It’s not. Men are not more attracted to taken women. This is a female issue
Oh, really?
Yup. Men are generally turned off by taken women, we want pure women who have few sexual partners
Think what you want
What’s in my mind are my observations. Women seem to fawn over taken guys and ignore single dudes and men are the opposite, they are turned off by the idea of her getting porked by that guy
No not at all. I'm attracted to women of all ages regardless of how many partners they've had.
Just chalk it down as his opinion.
@Dermott2000 it ent just my opinion. When a man is desperate he’ll have your view, when he can afford to be picky he’ll choose younger women with less partners
@Shamalien Mate you don't speak for all men. It's your belief and that's it.
Same principle as to why people are hesitant to apply for a company that is always hiring. S chronic single man is viewed as having something undesirable about him whereas a taken man has been verified.
It’s either the guy gave them a motive and didn’t tell them they were taken and then later find out they are… ORRR their just envious about the relationship and it really doesn’t have anything to do with the guy and they’re just lonely asf.
They’re *
I guess it's because usually taken men have the qualities they look for in a man.
Because those guys have good working social skills otherwise they wouldn´t be taken.
I guess they see it as a challenge and most people want to date someone who is desirable.
Because another woman has validated his desirability.
They aren't... maybe a very small minority, but in general they aren't
So the first guy you had sex wih didn't have the appearance of being chased by other girls
@RandomGuy1030 no not at all actually
So you have low standards
@RandomGuy1030 Lol on the contrary. I chose who I wanted to have sex with for the first time based on several different factors... fan girls were not one of them.
If no other girls wanted him he's not a catch
@RandomGuy1030 lol I never said. He was a catch lmao he was what I wanted for a reason and he served his purpose. Lmao it’s not like I wanted to marry him haha
@RandomGuy1030 I though he was attractive, he had a penis, he wanted to fuck… that’s all I wanted, and that’s what I got. Win win
So you're a slut
@RandomGuy1030 depends on how you would define slut. Because the official definition of slut is a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
One is many. you're a slut who was scared to do it twice
Even worse than a full blown slut you're a cowardly slut
@RandomGuy1030 actually many as defined, is defined as “a large number of”. So by definition one does not constitute as many….
@RandomGuy1030 Unless you define it as something else, in which case you should clarify.
Once a slut always a slut you're a slut
@RandomGuy1030 yes you’ve already said that’s. I asked you to explain how you define what a slut is.
A slut is a female who shows the ability to sleep with a tranger
@RandomGuy1030 trolllllllllllllll
@RandomGuy1030 he wasn’t a stranger. I’d known him for over a year
you're a whore shut the fuck up. The perfect complement to a mother fucker
@RandomGuy1030 aren’t you a ray of sunshine
@RandomGuy1030 my dude…. I’m not even a whore according you your definition of what you think a whore is lmao 🤣 get your story straight
The fact he's already taken is a sign that he is desirable and socially vetted.
What type of women are you dealing with? Lol. Most of thbe time if a woman goes for a man who is taken it'd because 1. Guy downplayed is current relationship 2. Pretends he's not in a relationship
They aren't. Those women you're speaking about are just trashy homewreckers
because taken guy usually have higher quality ( which is the reason why they are "taken" on first place)