Single People: When you imagine your ideal perfect partner, is that someone you could actually see yourself with in real life?

Question

Is your 100% ideal perfect partner realistically out there and waiting for you or not?

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

No, my ideal partner is too perfect to exist in this actual reality.

Her looks are heavily inspired by this girl at my gym who I sometimes see, except in my head, she's tall, has a specific body type and doesn't really wear any make-up - I first saw her on social media around 10 years ago, as we had a mutual friend and she kept liking his posts.

I've been into East Asian girls most, but she's better looking than all the ones I've seen, lol and she's mixed race, white pale skin and black curly hair, but I think it's dyed brown now.

If a girl like that does fit most categories of what I'd want, she wouldn't fit the physical description of her and looks wise, she could probably do way better than me.

In my head, she's got an American accent too, so I doubt she'd be British and I'm not vaccinated, so if she does exist, I'd probably never get to see her here in the UK, unless she for some reason decided to visit the UK and I don't live anywhere near London either, so I doubt she'd want to come to where I live.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

My ideal partner should exist, but not likely where I live in liberal California.

18 to 30 (over 30 equals no interest), hasn't done any hook ups or ONS, doesn't do any drugs (no weed either), doesn't drink alcohol or drinks very rarely and is willing to quit, doesn't smoke, no kids from past relationships, but does want some with the right person, no contact with any ex, once in a relationship won't be posting revealing and flirty pictures online for attention, will be very affectionate with me and she initiates the affection sometimes too, doesn't have an immoral job or one that requires her to spend multiple days away from home (traveling), no tattoos or very few (each tattoo makes her less attractive to me), will exercise every week just like I will to stay healthy and in shape for long term, is not hypocritical. Enjoys playing board games and doesn't make NEW opposite gender friends once in a relationship or try to hang out with them one on one.

letuswaltzforthedead · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't use the word perfect but I do think such a guy would be unrealistic. It's nice to dream about but I know it'll never happen irl.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes I think it´s a possible. It just seems hard to find a woman that is Christian and infertile, the reason is that both aspects also fit in my case so one of my biggest problem in dating has been lately that all the single Christian women wanted to start a family one day and I´m not able to procreate because of a genetic dysfunction.

It´s not the only problem I had during dating but it´s one of the major and because they considered not having the option of having kids of their own as a dealbreaker...

It´s not the only things I´m looking for by the way it just seems like the hardest to find. Because many of my other points on the list are relatively easy to achieve.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Only 20% of women picked D?

I picked “other.” I tend to find women my own age unappealing. In the unlikely event a much younger woman wanted me, I’d gently convince her it was a bad idea.

I actually had to turn down a marriage proposal, once. I told her “Four-year-olds can’t get married. She asked me when I was going to be five.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Perfection does not exist. I wouldn't waste my time with such a notion. I mean I buy 1 lottery ticket for each drawing. But I'm buying the dream. Not because I actually think I'll ever win. That dream is worth the buck to me🤣 And the odds of winning the lottery are much higher than finding the perfect woman.

RealMarek · Answer

I ended up with a woman who is better than I could have imagined. I think part of the reason is that I didn’t really have a “type” or a lot of specifics in mind and had seen a lot of really bad behavior from women in the past. I just wanted someone who is attractive and kind. I was determined not to settle, but I probably would have settled for someone less ideal and would have been happy anyway. Sometimes people get lucky.

abhi44444 · Answer

I know a life without partner which ideal is best as most don't want there relationship to break as for me I do want a girl may be not sexy but the one who understand more than myself I don't actually want to be in relationship ship as when we become connect it very long relationship as our life is very large then are able to take all responsibility it question will the relationship be solid

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I’m old fashioned. My ideal partner probably wouldn’t have been hard to find 20-30 years ago.

Fuentes · Answer

You already know what I think, I don't think about a future partner I could care less I want money.

Randy888 · Answer

my ideal partner is a guy that is 6ft+ somewhat fit/strong, nice personality and is not toxic, in reality no guy will ever love me🥲

Anonymous · Answer

I like how the women are bosses in Mega Man 😂

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes but not where I live. Maybe somewhere else

msc545 · Answer

The woman you think is perfect is the one you need to avoid.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yeah, cause' I don't ask for much

TroyDT · Answer

My ideal likely would find me lacking.

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

I think I have pretty reasonable standards.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Robotics technology hasn't advanced that far yet.

Lucy68 · Answer

Possibly yes

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Hm….. I think so

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