I work with this girl and we became very close friends and although we kissed sometimes, nothing romantic, but the closer we got the more we cared for eachother and after a year we began to date for about 2 months. I've dated a lot and get female attention regularly so i'm not new to the game, but something about my dates with her were just special. We spent quite a lot of time together and kept having so much fun together and although she's a very cold person who has her guard up at all times, she dropped it around me, began to tell me personal info and i've never seen her so happy. In fact, after a specific day together i could just tell how much she liked me, from her eyes, her actions, her smile, telling me her dad would like me, showing me family videos nd just wanting to spend as much time with me. After it i didn't know if i was ready for a relationship and just wanted some space to think about it
Things started to become very busy at work and were understaffed, stressed and depressed. She went distant for a bit because mentally she was so down and was just not in the right frame of mind to hang out and was worried her being in a mood would turn me off. I however seen this distance as her losing interest. She would then genuinely be busy on her days off and couldnt hang out but i panicked. Once, we were so caring but she was putting the relationship on the back of her mind for the time while it was at the front of mine, so i became suffocating, needy and clingy to her. She couldnt look at me, wouldn't talk or text, told me she didn't want a relationship and told her friends its over. I took a step back and now she is happy to see me and teases me and finds all my jokes funny and texts me into the early morning but hasn't seemed interested in hanging out. She just got her degree and is trying to find a new job so i feel time is running out. I know i was needy but to me it was just poor timing, so i just want to know is there any way to slowly get her back
