Is my brother toxic?

When I asked my brother who is 21, about him not liking me accepting my boyfriend's video call in front of him and his one college friend, he said that I should not have done that as his friend will spread it in his college that his sister has a boyfriend.

But also, when my brother was in a relationship at age 20, he used to openly video call in front of his friends, parents and me too, so when i asked him that why he did not mind accepting her GFs video call, he told me that, her dad has xxx properties and xxx homes (technically his girlfriend and his family was richer than bro and our family) - I got negative vibes from my brother as I love my boyfriend and I got no reason to hide it from anyone.

I also did not feel that I did anything wrong by accepting video call of his in front of my brother and his friend. (I am 25 and my boyfriend is 30)

My boyfriend (we are in a serous relationship) is of good family, but his origin is different state, and he is also a middle class and not as rich as us. My father likes him. My mom suggested me to find someone richer, but I said that I will never break my boyfriend's heart.

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Is my brother toxic?

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