How do you cope with being forever alone? (Page 2)

[melanieeeB]

You won't be alone forever, you have no idea what the future might bring butt you might be if you stay with this awful attitude lol

[Joker_]

butt

[mobiusforniner]

@Joker_ what are you thinking about joker, lol

[Joker_]

@mobiusforniner she said "butt"

[Rei02]

It is sad, but I came long ago to the conclusion that it is better than being in a toxic or ill relationship.

[DiegoO]

You can't be forever alone, unless that you want to. Is a good question though, if hypothetically you stayed trapped in a place nobody else knows about, or a place extremely difficult to reach, with technology, and impossible: without.

[MoniqueTLC]

What makes you come to the conclusion that you're going to be forever alone?

[Shayyyy1]

Don't think of it in a negative way focus on the benefits

[FilmGuy93]

Learn to be content with your own company. You’ll be amazed at how fast you will attract people to enjoy your company with you

[ManOnFire]

Did you know that you can feel lonely even when you are in a relationship?

[exitseven]

There was a time when I thought i would be lone forever. Oddly enough I was okay with it.

[Cedman]

Go out and meet friends and have a good time. The irony of relationships is that when you are trying to get a girlfriend you have no luck. When your out having fun you attract women without trying.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, first of all, don't call it that. That's just depressing.

[Anonymous]

I am used to be alone. You can do some activity like go to grocery shopping, watching tv, movies, have a cup of coffee sitting and reading and once in a while go travel alone. I don’t need anyone. People bring problems and I can’t handle it.

[KrakenAttackin]

"To live alone one must be either a beast or a God".. Aristotle.

So make your choice.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't think you'll be alone forever. You are feeling down and pessimistic.

[IHateBeingaMan]

wouldn't surprise me if this is male dominated

[TrillXHippy]

I’m only 27 and I just gotta live with the fact

[Heolurt]

For me it's inevitable so why would I do anything but cope with it.

[Anonymous]

No doubt these cases are male-dominated, or just people who don't get into a relationship, end their alone status later than normal or male

[BLP11520]

I couldn't handle it, I would have to find someone

[lennox5]

I find that staying busy helps. The more time you have with your own thoughts the worse it seems.

[Pleaznhim4me]

Look in the mirror a lot.

[Flunkerdunk]

This advice is so simple, yet very wise and sage.

Accountability is a word that seems like it has been lost to time and wind. I think it is important for somebody to be able to look at themselves and say: "I'm not a 10/10 because if I truly was, then there would be nothing to fix but here I am... alone."

When you take time to self reflect, then you start to see your own flaws. When you see your own flaws, then you start to see your own standards. When you see your own standards, then you start to notice that maybe you were shooting too high in the dating market. This is when you start to see the difference between "settle down with lower tier" and "dating within your own bracket".

It is okay to not be a 10/10. It does not make somebody a 1/10 if they are a 10/10, they just need to be honest with themselves.