Should I try to talk to him in person?

[ChildofVenusxox]

I was seeing this guy (and we had sex) recently he told me he's too busy with work. And that he thought he wanted to date. But that he doesn't want to and doesn't have time for anyone. He told me this via text and I said some things to him while texting that probably shouldn't have. I told him he was lying and that he just didn't want to date me.

I have his boxers and I'm planning on taking them back to him this week. Should I apologize for my behavior and try to talk to him when I see him? Or just don't bother? I would still like for us to be friends.

[caring__1]

The question is whether you want to be his friend or something more. If you want to be his friend, be patient and considerate, and keep communication clear, open and honest. Never accuse, blame, criticize, demand or tell him what he should or shouldn't do. If you're looking for more and have a problem being patient, pass on the opportunity.

[Guy13]

Exchange his boxers for a small cup of ice cream near his house… Starbucks ⁉️

[Bethany22]

If you still want to be just friends, then sure, talk to him. Otherwise, don't even go out of your way to give him back his boxers. Just hang them outside and he can pick them up without him being able to have the opportunity to slither back into your life

[LazerBean]

Obviously just moved on. He wanted sex, he got it from you, and now he no longer needs you. Throw his boxers away, move on, and probably be a little less easy in the future.

[Bratsondanielle]

Honestly it’d be a lot easier to find another guy….. unless he’s really good ofc

[ChildofVenusxox]

When I say talk to him I am saying because I want us to be friends.

[Bratsondanielle]

Ok cool. Good luck