Is it bitchy to tell my S/O that I'm not a toy?

[Anonymous]

My fiance and I are 23. We've been together on and off since high school. We now have 2 kids together and are moderately happy. This issue is, he treats me like a pump and dump. He gives zero fucks about my pleasure at all. Nor does he care about my mental health. Or the fact that as a stay at home mom, I'm a prisoner in this house (it's cheaper for me to stay home with the kids beings I don't have any higher education and my pay would go to childcare). I'm tired often and he gets pissy when I want to take a nap. If I nap one day, I'm not allowed to be tired the next. I'm tired of being treated like a doll that's only good for sex and housework.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I think there are better ways of approaching that. Don't make it a focus to tell a person what they're doing wrong, focus on what they need to do to improve. Don't tell a fat person that they're fat, focus on how they can best lose weight.

[nawtee_me]

let him know that child support cost more than him making sure of your pleasure... He is a jerk and you deserve better.
Most states have programs to help mothers go back to school or college to better themselves and the family.

[LazerBean]

That something that you should have figured out years ago. It's not bitchy to tell him that, but it's way to late for it to likely be helpful.

[Anonymous]

well your fault got into early marriage, now stop crying about it

[Asker]

Hey. Here's an idea. Suck my dick

[Opinion Owner]

I'll suck your husband dick

[boggboss]

Surely this is the type of issue you should have addressed before kids where even involved if your looking for a actual answer and bot just a argument word it differently

[Anonymous]

It's not bitchy to talk about how something makes you feel. Unless maybe you scream it at him or take a hostile tone

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, I agree with you 100% tell him you are tired of being his toy.

[spartan55]

You didn't know he sucked in bed until now?

[Anonymous]

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