Please read details! Whats it like dating someone going through a divorce?

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I met this guy off a dating profile. Right off the bat, he told me he has two kids, and that he and his wife separated 5 mos ago because she wouldn't stop cheating on him. He has gone to court, doing the paperwork, etc. He and I met in person twice (every minute was memorable) and we had hour long phone calls every other night.. its so easy with him, and we have such a great connection. He compliments me and says how I am different. I give him my attention and I am there when he needs me, as he gives me his attention too. We never kissed or flirted but it was clear we liked eachother.

This is where it goes downhill.. his ex kept blowing up his phone wanting him back, even though after theu separated she was kissing other boys (his son told him). She saw that I was liking his pics on fb and messaged me, telling me to back off. I showed him this and he felt really bad, he said she would never leave him alone until she moved on, and he said that he felt like she's going to control him forever.. I assume she uses the kids against him.

We stopped talking and it sounds silly but I am broken hearted.. I never connected with a man like this before.. I don't know if I will swe or talk to him again but I miss him so much I can't help it..

Please read details! Whats it like dating someone going through a divorce?
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