Why did he say I'm a pregnant horror and that my hormones are irrational and persistent?

[Anonymous]

I'm in my last trimester and I am honestly happy about my son about to be born very soon. I can say I have had hormones but I don't see why he has to vent in that way to his guy friend saying that. I mean I can be honest and say yes my hormones can get out of control and I apologize to him and to not take it personal. It can be annoying I agree but lately I feel like I've calmed down a lot and now focused on nesting/cleaning everything. He has been going on benders drinking heavily and telling me that I'm the one that drives him to drink. I get it hasn't been sunshine and rainbows. But I am not that bad I don't think. I just tell him to slow down with the drining and he thinks it's nagging. What can I do? Should I even say anything? 🤔

[sunflower00]

Jesus, I mean you can’t control your hormones and it’s well known that they go crazy when you’re pregnant. If you’re being horrible to him that not an excuse, but he should probably be a bit more understanding and patient. He is not acting like he’s ready to be a father by going out drinking all the time & on benders in my opinion, really childish

[Asker]

I honestly am not that bad with my hormones it's just sometimes I get jealous or stupid small things like that not even a huge deal like im not like trying to hit him or things like that that's a big no no and not an excuse to treat him horrible. I don't like that he's being this way and blaming me for his drinking. It's really bad lately

[sunflower00]

Yeah that doesn’t sound nice of him or fair at all. You are going through a lot being pregnant, it affects how you feel physically/mentally/emotionally and any man who is about to become a dad should understand that. Not nice of him to be blaming you for his childish drinking habits and so on.

[Pleaznhim4me]

Because he is a jerk. He is abusive. Next time he does it call the police and tell them he is calling you those things. They will at least take him to the station and lock his ass up for a while for verbal abuse to a pregnant woman. He deserves it.

[peterrezeeek]

she is not asking for pig's opinion... you shut up.

[Guy13]

He can have an opinion and he wanted you to know how crazy you are behaving.

[Asker]

I agree but he said it behind my back and was disrespectful. If you read the paragraph I wrote I said I've calmed down a lot with my hormones and now I'm in nesting stage if anything I just want him to stop drinking and being a drunk.

[Guy13]

Not drinking from stress of dad would be helpful. That’s how he handles stress all the time ⁉️

[Asker]

All the time.

[Guy13]

His life would really change if he could back away from that. There might be some strategies online?