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Am I a bad person for cheating on my girlfriend and leaving her for the girl I cheated with? Can I explain first please before you vote? (Page 2)
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The majority on here think what you did is bad, and I'm with them on this one.
At your age you will have many girlfriends over your life time. Don't be an asshole with women. That type of behavior will catch up with you when you least expect it. ✌
You could have offered friendship (to your ex) or explain her, communtication is the key. Sometimes is very difficult to understand situations but once you understand, you won't feel that bad.
You are selfish. I'm glad you left her. she will heal and move on, I pray. and you, I won't be surprised bif you jump ship again once you meet another girl. selfish prick
Excuse me? I am happier now in my new relationship
for the time being you traitor
What am I supposed to do? Stay with someone that doesn’t make me happy?
not that but you sound like you left abruptly. you didn't have a talk about it. you shocked her. that is wickedness
Asker. Stop trying to argue with people to get the answers you want to hear. It’s not going to happen point blank.
Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to.
You are in the wrong for cheating on her but not for leaving her. You did her a favor. I just hope she recovers and realizes that down the line
Is your new girlfriend a friend of your ex? If so, yikes. You said you're all in the same circle of friends.
Yes it was wrong to cheat. You should have dumped your ex first when you started liking someone else. However, you aren't a bad person as long as you self-reflect and apologise to your ex. Just don't do it again.
Okay I'll read the explanation and Then vote that you're a bad person.
Why do you think I’m a bad guy
If someone uses the word cheat, it means to me that they didn't break up soon enough.
It was emotional cheating though.
Exactly. It was cheating.
So I’m a bad guy?
Yes but don't worry we all have our flaws.
@AddylybnNightingale 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sorry, but I'm not gonna tell you what you want to hear. You dun goofed. Your new girlfriend isn't any better.
You did the right thing by breaking up with her right away instead of stringing her along like most cheaters do , so you did the right thing
Lol, "Am I an asshole for behaving in the exact same manner as women do?"
In my opinion you would've been a bad guy if you stayed with your ex-gf despite of not being in love with her anymore, 2 years is a long time and it is understandable that she is sad. My ex-gf also tried to guilt trip me but it is not your fault, no one is entitled to anyone, breakups are a part of life. I hope your current relationship works out.
U sure u ain't gonna feel the same way about ur current partner after some time lol
Not a bad person, but you did a bad thing. Very bad. Learn from it and don't repeat the same mistake twice. Say sorry to your ex girlfriend.
Every bad person does bad things, but not everyone who does bad things is a bad person.
Does every person do bad things even good people?
Every person does bad things at some points in their lives. How bad those things are, that's another question. Some people go through life doing only minor bad things.
But none of that should be seen as an excuse to do bad things. Doing bad things is by definition bad. You NEVER should find excuses for doing something bad. You should ALWAYS strive to avoid doing bad things.
No, you are not a bad guy. Relationships end and people walk away from other people all the time.
Emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating.
Emotional cheating is accidental. Physical cheating actually involves you making a decision. You can’t control who you love. You can control who you sleep with.
But you can control who you love, there's so many things you can do to prevent it.
C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E that before you break it off. That just a low blow.
Think of it like this, you did men a favor because women do this to men every day.
What you did sucked. Especially since y'all are all in the same group of friends
I feel sorry for your current girlfriend since eventually, you will cheat on her too.